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What is the psychology of people who love to talk big?

Show off, love face, and feel inferior. I think boasting will make me face, and make others think that I am very powerful and strong in everything. How does a person exaggerate and show off is often a flawed side? Perhaps the more he feels inferior, the more he feels inferior because of his defects. He is afraid that others will see through his weaknesses and want to hide them, so he often likes to exaggerate himself. That's because he is afraid of being ignored or looked down upon by others, hoping to attract others' attention.

On the surface, a boaster doesn't blush or beat his chest. It seems that they have strong psychological resistance. Actually, it's not. Their psychological defenses are very fragile. Don't blush, don't beat your heart because they are serious at the moment and their feelings are harmonious. Once stabbed, blushing is immediate, even anger and impulse.

Therefore, people who talk big actually have little psychological space. A little more will overflow, and a little less will be lost. I am afraid that others will not recognize, value or respect myself, and I am afraid that I will lose the opportunity. So I instinctively use big words to attract and defend. However, due to the small psychological space, it is not easy to control big talk, and jokes and embarrassment often appear. At this time, the braggart will be depressed and demoralized, and the effect is counterproductive. If you want to make psychological compensation for yourself, you will be psychologically hurt. If you do this often, it will easily lead to a vicious circle.

Because of the small psychological space, people who talk big are also easy to be killed. Violent praise can also easily make boasters lose their psychological balance and behave abnormally. Therefore, a braggart is not a proper lawyer and debater. Intense psychological confrontation will greatly consume their little psychological energy reserves. They are also not suitable for soldiers and entrepreneurs. Lack of adventurous spirit and inability to command are the talents of such people. Otherwise, why do you need to talk big to make psychological compensation and self-satisfaction?