Talking about tired sadness: thinking too much will only ruin you and make you uneasy.

1, people will experience a lot in their life and see everything slowly. Even if you love someone you shouldn't love, one day, you will suddenly stop loving.

2. You can close your eyes if you don't want to see anything. But what you don't want to think about, you can't lock your heart.

3, the distance probably means: you know I didn't sleep, and I know you didn't sleep, watching each other's updates, but you couldn't say a word.

What I fear most in my feelings is that I have survived the darkest time without you. When I finally hid my grievances and sadness in my heart and managed to squeeze out a smile at myself in the mirror, you appeared in my world again and said you wanted to love me.

I'm tired of listening to my favorite song, but I always think of it at the first time. I watched my favorite movie, but the ending made me shudder. The person I love most is gone, but I can't help looking back. I know I don't like listening to music, I'm tired of watching movies, and you're gone, but I've turned love into love and then into a habit.

6. Thinking too much will only ruin you, make you uneasy and make things that are actually good worse.

8. Don't tell others about your bad mood. Anyway, sleep at night, go out to play during the day, eat and drink well on cloudy days, and listen to the rain on rainy days.

9. You only saw me turn around silently and calmly at last, but didn't see that your departure made me unable to eat or sleep, and then told myself that it was all over.

10, in fact, everyone is the same. If you are happy, you will be sad. If you are lucky, you will have bad luck. We will feel sad simply because we are far away from our imaginary self. When we lose patience, we will lose more. The stronger the anxiety, the stronger the sense of powerlessness.

Tired sadness. Tell me, why are you tired?

Tiredness in life is the subjective perception of life pressure in the heart. Many times, we all face the challenges of life and work with a trembling and forced psychology. How can I not be tired? Many times, the pressure of work and life is not so heavy, but your thoughts and emotions exceed your pressure and you will inevitably be tired.

Sometimes I feel so tired, I don't want to do anything, my life is so boring, and sometimes I am confused about the future. So what makes people physically and mentally exhausted?

I wonder if you often feel overwhelmed?

Do you feel tired sitting in the office every day, even if you just browse the web?

I set a goal for myself and don't want to do it right away.

Think you can't do anything?

You feel tired,

This is actually a signal that the brain protects itself.

When what you think in your head and what you do in your hand can't be unified,

You will start ideological struggle and naturally feel tired.

There are two situations when you combine what you think with what you do.

1. You don't want to do what you are doing.

You didn't do what you wanted.

You can't do what you really want.

According to these two situations, talking about my four points should help you eliminate most of your fatigue.

I will write the first two points this time, because a friend told me that my article is too long to read.

1, set me free

About what you are doing, you don't want to do (you can't do what you want to do),

Realize that you can decide your present.

When we were young, our parents would choose what clothes to wear and what hairstyle to cut for us.

Many friends may be forced by their parents to study unwilling majors. I have no choice but to work now. I feel very painful.

How to go after that, as a sober adult, is not limited. Although inviolable persecution still exists, it will not be discussed here for the time being. )

Any choice has advantages and disadvantages. You can choose to jump out of the status quo, or you can choose to accept it and stop complaining.

Take the lesser of the two evils. Think about it, yes.

Giving up the right to choose is tantamount to escaping the freedom that should be there.

The choices that have taken place, tell yourself,

At the cognitive level at that time, you have made the best choice for yourself. There is no need to regret it.

If you don't escape from freedom, you won't be far from real freedom.

2. Self-evaluation

In the ten years of studying on campus, we have been arranged from top to bottom according to scores.

This way of grading makes us inadvertently form some misunderstandings in our thinking.

We have experienced numerous big exams and quizzes, and the overall score ranking tends to be stable.

So it is natural to think that scores and rankings are equal to abilities, and abilities will gradually be regarded as a fixed thing.

Obviously, I have done a lot of work, but I still can't get any appreciation from the leaders.

I have been reviewing very carefully. Why can't I get on?

If we don't get something in return, we won't pay again.

Think about whether you can't listen to the inspirational sentences that you will succeed as long as you work hard.

In addition, the school's grading system has gradually cultivated us into a performance-oriented person.

I believe the following conversation happened between you and me.

Parent: Can't you do this problem?

Child: Neither can other students.

The child didn't say: I can't answer because I'm not good enough.

Because, he has felt:

Getting good grades does not depend on learning progress.

Mainly depends on the comparison with others.

The motivation for hard work has also become to get praise or avoid being criticized.

We care too much about the external evaluation and ignore the more important self-effect.

The standard of success does not depend entirely on your ability to do it.

More importantly, how do you evaluate your success?

Do more self-reflection and improve your evaluation of yourself.

Minutes make people cry. Tell me about you who is suitable for heart fatigue!

First, sometimes, love is also a kind of injury. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.

Second, there is a kind of fool in the world. They are still comforting others when they are most sad.

Third, there is always such a person in life, which is amazing and you can't forget it; I cried my eyes red, but I smiled and forgave.

Fourth, many people's lives are sloppy and frivolous, but they take everything in their hands as true and don't want it to be damaged or changed. That's how pain comes about, isn't it?

Fifth, some wounds will heal after a long time; Some grievances are relieved when they are figured out; Some pains are tolerated, and after a long time, it becomes a habit.

6. How many times must a heart be hurt before it is forced to give up? How many times does a person have to wait before he knows that he is just redundant? Now the frozen heart used to be the warmest; Now ruthless people used to be the most affectionate.

Seven, don't drink, or get drunk, because the feeling of being half drunk and not drunk is too sober, either reminding people of old love or reminding people of old love.

8. Later, I got used to living alone, not showing my sadness, not telling my worries, and not loving me.

Nine, people are always like this, and finally they reach the age of knowing how to cherish, but everything is separated.

Ten, like a person, how can this happen? One second you tried to tear him up, and the next you picked it up crying and didn't know how to put it together.

After tonight, let's forget the past. The night is still long, and the rest of my life is long. I need to save some strength to wait, wait for the later people.

Twelve, negative energy doubts life in the middle of the night, but can live like a fool during the day. Perhaps this is life.

Sooner or later, someone will take your place in my heart. Don't worry, don't feel guilty, and don't say sorry.

Fourteen, when you stay up late every day, have you ever thought that the person you like has fallen asleep, and there is no you in the dream, and you don't love you when you wake up?

15. She left, but I can't forget her. One person's efforts will never determine the relationship between two people. I can walk 10,000 steps to see you, and I am willing to walk 10,001 steps to leave you.

Sixteen, if one day, you blame me for not loving you well, you should remember that you didn't cherish me well, thank you for your ruthlessness and practice my heartlessness.

Seventeen, some people say: parallel lines are the most terrible, and there will never be intersections. In fact, the intersection line is the most terrible, and the farther it is after intersection.

Sometimes if you accidentally know something, you will feel very chilling, but when you get used to it, you no longer trust you.

19. Tears are real, sadness is real, and it is also true that I want to spend my life with you.

Twenty, the people who are most afraid of and care about are slowly drifting away, drifting away and becoming strange. It is really a heartfelt pain.

Twenty-one, others give you comfort, but never know the pain in your heart. No matter how many grievances, no matter how uncomfortable, I remember that I will eventually heal myself.

Twenty-two, personal loneliness is freedom, but the loneliness of two people together is not even free.

Twenty-three, while thinking about escaping, I want to continue. My emotions all come from your attitude.

What I hate is not love, but waiting, guessing, apologizing, hurting and unfulfilled promises.

Twenty-five, you are the person I have struggled, given up and regretted, but I still love you very much.

26. Just because I don't sing love songs at the top of my lungs doesn't mean there are no heartbreaking moments. I didn't open the wound for slaughter, and no one knew about the healing.

27. You can never wake a person who pretends to sleep, just as you can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

28. I've always wanted to control my feelings for you, neither too strong nor too weak, neither too light nor too heavy. It's just that I forgot that feelings can't be blamed.

I don't like you anymore, but I'm still used to finding your figure in the crowd, staring at your back in a daze and asking others about your recent situation.

30. The saddest thing about a relationship is not that you are cold and distant because of bad words, but that you have been very kind to me.

Thirty-one, no one left you on impulse. What you see is the moment it collapses. Love is accumulated, and love is not accumulated.

32. Feelings didn't come first. Obviously, I met you first, but you gave all your gentleness and patience to later generations.

Thirty-three, you coded a lot of warm words, but you got a perfunctory expression or, well, he talked about his busyness, but the chill came all over you. You gave him your world happily, but you were never arranged in his world.

There is a kind of fool in the world. They are still comforting others when they are most sad.

Thirty-five, not all efforts can be exchanged for each other's understanding. How can a person who doesn't love you realize that your most beautiful youth is suffering with him?

36. Don't tell me you're sorry. Sorry is a lifelong default. A long time ago, we went to an empty future.

Thirty-seven, we can meet again, we still have time, but that wonderful time, the best time, will not come again.

Thirty-eight, I have never been optimistic about good feelings, whether friendship or love, even if second time around, there will be cracks.

It seems like this every time, without exception, when we need someone to rely on most, there is often no one to talk to.

Forty, we don't have so many opportunities to meet again, and we don't have so many opportunities to be together again. If you always grow up, no one will always wait for you.

41. I didn't participate in your past, but I didn't have time to reach your future. Then I stopped and you walked away.

Forty-two, time tells us that what we have said cannot count, and those who have loved can change again.

Forty-three, if I can, I want to get to know you again, starting with my name, and then in later stories, I will never fall in love with you again.

How lucky I am to meet you in this life, and how unfortunate it is to get married with you.

I stared at him for a long time, and I didn't know I hadn't forgotten until I met someone who looked like him.

46. No matter how deep you like it, it will become shallow if you don't get a response, just like one day you will find that I haven't looked for you for a long time.

Forty-seven, once the dream was broken all over the floor, pick it up, try to piece it together, then break it again, pick it up again, and piece it together again until one day it can't be pieced together again.

48. I hate that my friends know my other friend through me, and then they come to the depths of the ocean, but I am excluded. This feeling is even sadder than being lovelorn.

49. Don't expect everyone to understand you, because carrots and vegetables have their own tastes. If you make a radish, naturally you can't make a green vegetable.

Fifty, I cry alone, laugh alone, walk alone, and my living habits gradually become numb to love.

5 1. Even the best thing will be lost one day. No matter how deep the memory is, it will be forgotten one day. People who love again will leave one day. No matter how beautiful the dream is, there is also a day to wake up.

52. The saddest thing is not to hide in the quilt and cry in the middle of the night, but to dream of the loss of two people waking up together.

53. Later, I found that not all likes will have results. After all, I have to understand that it is very rare for some people to meet.

54. I only hope that the people I like will like me, and we can go on. There's really nothing else to ask.

Talk about the sadness that makes your eyes red.

1, the original world of love is so big that it can hold hundreds of grievances; It turns out that the world of love is very small, so small that three people are crowded to suffocate.

My mother asked me if I had a boyfriend, and I said no. My mother said I could have this, and I said; This is really not.

We are all farsighted, which blurs our recent happiness.

4. I am used to many habits, but I can't get used to insecurity.

I don't want to tell others that I am lonely, because they know that I have always been a lonely person.

6. The debts owed in the past life are slowly decadent with the helplessness of this life.

7. Nothing in this world can measure the true value of love.

8. Comfort is just warm nonsense. You always want to grow up on others. Are you a loser?

9. You said that you would never leave me under any circumstances. I took off my mask and saw you run away.

10. If you can't turn into a pencil to write about other people's happiness, then you should try to turn into an eraser to erase their sadness.

1 1, an old song, an old man, some memories may exist in my heart forever.

12, leaving for no reason is the most hurtful, and falling in love for no reason is the most touching.

13, everyone who can understand the lyrics has a story.

14, where you won't take the exam,

15, the person I love deeply is also the person who hurts me deeply.

16, I hope you don't have to, but I like it.

17, I was so happy to see you just now, so comfortable to see you again, so sad to miss you, so hard to chase you, please fulfill my heart!

18, I think it's because we love too carefully, too carefully?

19, you just don't understand how afraid I am that you will forget me, so I dare not change my avatar screen name.

20. If you are my ultimate harbor, how can you separate me from you even if you quarrel and get angry?

2 1. There are always a few people in this world who make your heart warm.

There is nothing wrong with being soft-hearted, but some people have no pity.

23. Even a true friend feels rich.

24. Silence is more complete disappointment than swearing.

25. I cut my hair short, love people badly, and see through love with my eyes.

26. Too much water overflows from my eyes.

27. I am so familiar with your every breath.

28. I want a love that has only a beginning and no end.

29. If you don't know, don't, don't think, don't love, don't be so greedy.

30. Can you love me and walk hand in hand?

No one understands being tired and sad. Saying true love will only give you peace of mind.

Time can deceive people most, but it can also make you understand that nothing can't be lost!

The right person is on the road, maybe you can meet him at the next intersection.

Meet this life unchanged, such a beautiful love! I hope to present it in the form of a story.

She always said it was an impulse. I said if I don't love you, who will I love?

Love at first sight is like keeping you around on impulse, and then making you fall in love with me.

I decided to give up on you. It's not that I don't love you anymore, but that I'm tired. Everything in the world can be tried, except feelings.

I've worked hard for so long that I finally know that even if I become the best girl in the world, you won't look at me again.

Quarrel is the cold war, and I have less and less confidence in this relationship.

When you are alone, no one talks, and you will feel lonely. When two people don't talk, loneliness doubles.

Live every day, because in the days to come, you will never be younger than today.

When you start thinking about a relationship, the answer is already in your heart.

True love will not make you doubt, but will only make you feel at ease.

It's not easy to stick to your beliefs, but don't hurt yourself.

There is no right or wrong in this world and there is no sense of time. The best feeling is that you have me in your heart and I have you in my heart.

You are the color in my black and white world, and you are the exception to my right and wrong.

Love is not divided into morning and evening, and the right person is afraid that he has no courage to express himself and is not qualified to promise.

He just told me that if you stay, I will always love. Although the words are old-fashioned, they are still very useful.

There are routines, but in the person who loves you, no matter how old the routines are, they can make the other person blush and beat. If it's not true love, how can a routine be?

You are not the impulse of my youth, but the long stream of water I yearn for. Finally found a sentence suitable for our 8-year long-distance running.

Eight years of love, eight years of persistence, eight years of waiting, and eight years of rest. Blessing.

I have known him for a short time, and we are not in the same city. Video with him when I have a stomachache, and he is crying over there. He said that he loved me and that he would take me to Potala Palace.

Blessing, such feelings I don't know is love.

When you have a question, you already have the answer in your heart. True love will make you feel, not make you doubt all the time.

You are wrong, but you blame everything on me. I don't blame you. I can't let you go.

In love, people who love more always have the least right to speak and pay the most, but they never get a corresponding response.