After a year of marriage, my father-in-law is always drunk and crazy in the middle of the night. We can't stand it. What should we do?

My name is eiko. My father died when I was very young. My mother remarried me to our county when I was ten years old. Soon after, my stepfather and I gave birth to a sister. My stepfather treats me like his own daughter and has never treated me badly. Because I didn't get into high school, my stepfather, who graduated from junior high school, helped me to open a daily chemical shop in the county, just for fear that I would go out to work and marry far away.

When I was twenty-one, my stepfather helped me find a marriage. In a small county like ours, my family got married at the age of twenty. Because my stepfather was very kind to me, and I didn't object to the person he recognized, I met my married husband now. He works as a manager in a factory outside because he wants to come back and settle down when he is old. I agreed to marry an old man because my mother said he was more distressed. We talked before we got married. He is also honest and obedient to me. In fact, I know that he has been kissed many times before, and all the girls have broken up with him. I guess he is too sincere to make girls happy, but I still like him better. I don't think people who are optimistic about stepfathers and mothers will be bad!

According to our custom, we got married when we got engaged. I was pregnant with a child soon after my marriage. At that time, my husband took an annual leave to accompany me to have a baby. My parents-in-law are naturally unhappy when they see her husband protecting me all day. They thought they would spoil me and were unhappy, but they didn't say it in front of me. After all, I am pregnant with their own flesh and blood now, and I have to endure it if I am unhappy. My stomach is getting bigger and bigger, and sometimes I feel uncomfortable squatting down and washing my feet, so I asked my husband to help me pour water and wash my feet. I wash my feet in the room. My father-in-law walked into my room without knocking and called my husband out. I vaguely heard my father-in-law scolding her husband again, saying that his parents were not waiting on women and had no man's backbone.

At that time, my parents-in-law always said that I was not pleasing to the eye behind my back. Unexpectedly, after I gave birth to my daughter, my parents-in-law did not even look at my daughter. My husband took care of me for the next month. Because I have a close relationship with my mother's family, my mother will come to see me from time to time, know my father-in-law's attitude and argue with them. Who knows my father-in-law also scolded my mother, saying that my mother's daughter could not have a son, and my mother was killed.

I thought my father-in-law's personality would improve, but I didn't expect to call my husband to work outside soon, saying that I would stay at home and eat his money. In fact, my husband had his own savings at that time, but my father-in-law forced him to go out, so I stayed at home to take care of my daughter. My mother-in-law didn't help me with my children at all. She goes to work in the school cafeteria early every morning and comes back late. I don't know if I did it on purpose. I take care of my children and help them cook dinner every day.

I want to enjoy my father-in-law's birthday. I also specially bought him a suit of clothes and cooked a table of dishes. He usually drives a minivan very hard, so he should show filial piety. Who knows, he also disliked the cheap clothes I bought and set them on fire. My father-in-law also drank a lot at that time. I was really angry when I was drunk and cursed. I bought hundreds in such a small county.

When my husband learned about it, he came back from far away to persuade me to go home. My stepfather was very angry at that time and told him not to let me be wronged again, but to move out by himself. My husband refuses to move out because of the pressure of raising children now. Stepfather also felt that there was no need to increase his pressure and advised me to go back. At that time, my father-in-law promised not to do that and not to drink.

But within a month. Not long after my husband went out to work, he began to drink crazy again, and this time he was speechless. After drinking, he turned on the stereo and sang loudly in the middle of the night. The neighbor next door is a little afraid to scold him because he is a famous bully in our local area. My daughter was scared to cry by the stereo that night. I rushed out the door and shouted at my grandfather. He played louder, but my mother-in-law just turned a blind eye and didn't speak.

But after my husband came back, he didn't solve the problem at all. My father-in-law is noisy all day. I really can't stand calling him crazy, but he calls me a wild child without a father. My father died young and uneducated. Usually I can tolerate anything he says, but I really can't stand disturbing children and scolding parents. I dumped him with a stool. Since he didn't treat me like family, I just ... At that time, my father-in-law came over and slapped me. That slap made my nose bleed, and my husband just stood there as if he didn't know who to help. I knew he was embarrassed, but at that time my heart had given up on him.

My father-in-law told me to get out of this house, and he also told me to return the money for the wedding bride price to him. I dream of getting back at him. I was so angry that I didn't want to ask my stepfather to pick me up. My husband stood by and dragged me away. In the face of such a family, my depression this year was like a volcanic eruption, and all the fires rushed out at him. I know he is very kind to people, but he is really too weak to protect our mother and daughter completely.

After the divorce, I didn't regret it at all, but felt relaxed. I still like quiet nights when my father-in-law plays noisy music after getting drunk in the middle of the night every day, so I quietly look at my sleeping daughter and thank my stepfather and mother for taking care of me. After returning to my mother's house, my stepfather basically helped me take care of my children during the day, and I was busy with my own business. Although my husband begged me to remarry several times later, I didn't agree. I feel that my feelings are broken and I can't make up for it.