Mom also needs time off work! The most tiring profession in the world: housewife

In the traditional concepts of many families or the established impressions of husbands, housewives are often a necessary existence that no one really cares about or care about. These mothers shoulder all the important responsibilities in the family, from children to children. From the beginning of the night until late at night, it is difficult for them to have their own rest time, not to mention how huge the invisible pressure is when they have to endure all kinds of grievances.

The most tiring thing about being a mother is that she is in a state of high alert at all times, detecting various external threats while avoiding harm. Anxiety and worry increase subconscious fatigue. But less and less time is given to myself.

So, for a while, I was in a state of self-contradiction. Sometimes, I wonder: Why should I have children? If I go back to 3 years ago, I didn’t have a child. I believe that today, three years from now, I will definitely be able to do something great. But today, after giving birth to a child, and starting from scratch, I feel that everything really started from scratch. Don’t they all say that the most powerful women can take care of both family and career? Why can't I do it? For a period of time after I gave birth to my child, I instilled in myself the thought that I wanted to become a strong woman. But once I get to an overtime party and go home late, I suddenly feel guilty again when I see the baby. Since I can't be a good mother, why should I give birth to him?

In the morning meeting a few days ago, we were chatting and accidentally talked about a picture. Some people will just take it for granted. What do you think after reading it? Do you think women especially like to spend money? The first five items are all women spending money. And men are the ones who least need to spend money on shopping. Therefore, our bosses, including the men, all have an idea: the basis for spending money on the first five items is that men make money and then spend it on women. I really want to know, what is this?

To be honest, after listening to this, how do you feel about a woman? Does it take it for granted that girls can’t make money? Don't girls have jobs? Just because she doesn't make a lot of money doesn't mean she doesn't make money. Furthermore, some stay-at-home moms spend their husbands’ money? Why does she spend her husband's money? Have you thought about it? No! You absolutely don't! You just take it for granted! He doesn’t see the new generation of mothers coming up now. They are all changing themselves and the world in their own way.

Think back and think about it, women have paid so much for their families, but men will only say, as long as I can make money, you can just take care of the family? Why are women only required to take care of their career and family, while men only need to take care of themselves? Okay, you compromise. You work hard to maintain the family, take care of the family, and take care of everyone in the family. He cheated. The reason is that you look like a yellow-faced woman, sloppy and lose the girlish charm! Maybe it’s because I can’t work overtime when I’m taking care of my family, and I can’t take care of my family when I’m working overtime and partying, which often makes me very conflicted, what do I want? WTF

Didn't he ever think that a few years ago, you fell in love with him and married him just because he said he loved your girly charm? Isn’t that person the same person I was before I started a family, got married, and had children? Well, you compromise again. For him, you decided to change again. You work hard, you strive to improve, and you strive to become a better version of yourself. He still cheated. The reason is that you are too strong and do not have the thoughtfulness of a woman who cares about her family! WTF In order to change your view of my yellow-faced woman, I worked so hard, but... you saw a fart! The workplace should not have anything to do with the Gu family. But it is the biggest headache for millions of women.

Write at the end. I choose to work hard on the basis of taking care of my family. So, I prefer family. Because, I am a woman. I am a family person. I just love my baby above all else. I can't change my original desires.