What if the child doesn't want to sleep in separate beds?

Children refuse to sleep in separate beds for the following reasons: 1. Fear. This is a common experience in children's growth and development, such as fear of monsters and nightmares. 2. Attachment psychology. The child grew up in the mother's arms. In daily skin contact and caress, children are prone to attachment and are unwilling to sleep in separate beds. 3. Loneliness. Children sleep with their parents, and they can see their parents' smiling faces before going to bed, feeling very practical and happy; And sleeping alone is lonely. So how do you let your child fall asleep smoothly? 1. Help children overcome their timidity. Tell your child gently and calmly, "Many children your age will be afraid." "My mother was afraid when she was a child, but she was not afraid later." Let the child know that he is not the only one who will be afraid. Allow children to reveal their fears, enlighten them and let them know that fear will disappear. 2. Consciously cultivate children's independent spirit. If you usually have a period of solitude; The holiday allowed him to stay with his grandparents for a few days, which weakened his attachment to his parents. 3. Let the children have a psychological preparation process before going to the bed. For example, why you sleep in separate beds. At the beginning of separating beds, you can sit in front of the cot and tell stories and talk to the children before going to bed. Tell him where the light switch is, let him close his eyes and kiss his forehead, so that he can feel his parents' love and feel safe. (This article * * * is 1 page) [Continue reading this article] I like it.