I have been engaged twice, divorced twice, and complained about the bitterness of my feelings.

Many people have bad emotional experiences in their emotional life. Everyone should know how to cherish it after losing it, and also understand that love is never as perfect as imagined, and the other half always has something that makes us dissatisfied. But in life, people have to face their feelings. Since it happened, don't blame yourself too much. Both are over. Give yourself some time to have a rest. Let bygones be bygones. But we should learn how to enter the next relationship from these two failed relationships. Don't start dating girls easily. You should observe more, experience more, and feel whether it is appropriate for two people to be together in all aspects. Don't speed up the dating process in order to get married quickly, such as living together and getting engaged soon. It takes a year or so to know carefully whether the other person is right for you. Once confirmed, don't break up with each other easily. No matter what kind of object we choose, it's a bit like gambling. We don't know what the result will be, but we should all manage with heart, be single-minded and be honest with each other. We must all be willing to admit defeat and accept the impact of our own decisions on our lives. Right? Moreover, only through a lot of persistence, trust and affection can we gradually cultivate a solid foundation and expect the return of each other's love for us. I believe that if you lose, you will gain, and if you pay, you will gain.

If we dig a well, if we only dig halfway and think there will be no water, we will give up and start another one. If you still don't dig deep, it will be difficult to harvest the sweetness of well water. We must treat it with confidence and perseverance in order to get the happiness we want. I believe that as long as they are not women with very imperfect personalities and people with bad conduct, most girls cherish their feelings and hope to marry their boyfriends in the end. So you have to give her confidence, she is the only one in your life. No matter whether she has a good temper or a bad temper, if you treat her well, she will be moved by you and love you more to repay you.

That's all, I hope you can stick to your vision and your feelings in the future. Come on!