You indulge all the bad guys! _

These four behaviors will definitely condone men to become scum.

Men need to be "trained" slowly, and your casual actions will have an impact on them. The transformation between "loser love rat" and "good man" often takes only one step, and this step often depends on the woman behind them. ?

1, mother's excessive concern

Typical performance: "as long as I see his room is extremely messy, I will help him tidy it up." When he is hungry, he will cook for him, and unconsciously he will want to do anything for the person he likes.

Psychoanalysis: Although it is understandable to want the other person to be happy with his contribution, if you take care of the other person too much, the other person will think that you are more like a mother than a girlfriend, so your identity will change unconsciously. When the other person is used to your care, he will take this care for granted and gradually leave everything around him to you. ?

Step 2 "support" your boyfriend with money

Typical performance: "because the other person is younger than me, I will buy him whatever he wants, and I will pay for it when I date." It seems that I always pay the bill. " But I don't feel uneasy about it. On the contrary, I think I should work hard to make money for him. "

Psychoanalysis: Money corrupts people! If the other party buys something for him, it may make the other party have the idea of "I don't have to work". This practice of "raising" her boyfriend with money will only make him gradually degenerate.

Innocent girl does as he says.

Typical performance: "I always do what he says, because I'm afraid I'll be rejected by him after expressing my opposition." Although sometimes I can't stand it, I will choose to listen to him in order not to be embarrassed.

Psychoanalysis: No one wants to be hated by the person he likes, but it doesn't necessarily mean that the obedience of innocent girls will attract the love of the other party. If you don't convey your true thoughts to each other, then two people will only be inseparable together, and you will gradually fall into his mind. Although it takes a lot of courage to express your thoughts, it is sometimes necessary to show them to each other. ?

4, sesame little things are full of praise

Typical performance: "He likes himself better because he wants him to like himself, so he often praises him. I think whoever is praised will be in a good mood.

Psychoanalysis: Indeed, few people are unhappy after being praised. However, if Sesame points out the praise with big talk and small talk, it will ruin the other person's idea of making progress, and it is likely to cultivate a "loser boyfriend" who makes progress at last.