I didn't know I had a "pig teammate" husband until I gave birth to a child. What happened to the pig teammate?

Our father says he is better than most fathers. He likes children very much and wants to play with them, but he won't devote himself to them like his mother, and he won't take care of them like his mother. It's ridiculous for a baby's father to take care of the baby!

When Dabao was about two years old, Bauer was still in his belly. In the evening, my father tells stories to my sister and sings and sleeps with her. Often, he only heard his father's voice gradually decreasing and his snoring gradually increasing. My little sister is still playing next to her father. ......

When Bauer was born, I lay still because of caesarean section. The baby woke up hungry in the middle of the night and cried loudly. My father still slept like a dead pig and didn't respond at all. In the hospital, Eva's father slept in a simple bed a little far from my bed, which made me very anxious, so I had to hit him with a pillow and fell asleep. ......

Bauer is a little older. In the evening, his father told him a story, telling him that Wa had gone somewhere and that Wa's father was still sitting there reading. How about you read to the air? Or are you immersed in the story?

Going out shopping on weekends, my father takes care of two children at home and tells him what to do when I leave. Everyone agrees that there is no problem. When I came back, I thought I was in the wrong house. The room was like a thief, and toys and books were piled everywhere. The three of them sat in a messy room and had a good time. ......

I sent my baby to an interest class at the weekend, so I have no time to cook. The baby's father cooks at home, and the food is not bad, but I can't stand the kitchen. ......

I can't help but get angry at helping my children with their homework at night. Dad said, "I'll do it!" After a while, I heard my father shouting "It's * * *". It turns out that he is not much better than me. ...

There are too many such things, and the road to raising a baby stumbles forward with a painful smile. ......

I have two children. Usually husbands are "pig teammates" and don't care about you. If you ask him to do something for you, he says "no, no, it's really annoying", or he doesn't want to do it. When two people quarrel, I let him, and the man can bend and stretch, but he does! Just like a child who hasn't grown up, he loses his temper as soon as he says it.

On the contrary, when I was pregnant and the baby was born for a few months, my husband was a "universal man, a heater", but he cared about me very much. No, he cares about me for the good of the children. He doesn't know how to cook at ordinary times, but he does, and he doesn't think I'm bored. He did what I told him to do, and he didn't do well there. He is not angry, but coaxed. "Don't be angry, don't be angry, it's not good for children. I'll just change it." Everything is positive. Changing diapers and feeding milk to children can be very diligent. I really miss that wonderful time! I really missed my husband at that time!

God, this question suits me perfectly.

Because there is a pig teammate at home, I didn't find out it was a pig teammate until there were no children, because there was not much housework.

After having children, you can't be a pig. Children have shit.