The movie I Love You —— David Xu as a film critic

I found this movie after listening to Faye Wong's I Love You. The original work is Wang Shuo's Death of an Addict.

The heroine (Xu) is hysterical, always looking for trouble, and the hero (David) is not idle, so they are anxious. From beginning to end, the heroine wants to say three words "I love you", and what she wants to hear is that the hero says "I love you" to her. It may have something to do with the growth of the heroine. There is a lot of anxiety in her character. She has a very uncertain feeling about what she has, so she must prove it. So she tried her best to express her possessiveness, but she couldn't be too obvious and had strong self-esteem. From the beginning, she was a weak person, a woman who needed and longed for others' love. Unfortunately, the hero doesn't understand this. He probably doesn't know how uneasy this woman is facing him. In fact, as long as he shows a little concern, this woman will be proud. Unfortunately, he doesn't know.

The prominent manifestation of Xiao Ju's morbid psychology is his lack of self-security. This is a sense of security that can only be obtained under the protection of love. Because of the lack of security, Xiao Ju will guess and be hysterical; Because of insecurity, when Wang Yi first filed for divorce, Xiao Ju was in pain, and she tried to stay. At the end of the movie, we know that Xiao Ju grew up in a broken family, and her father personally killed her mother. Therefore, she is more eager to be loved than ordinary people, even if it is only verbal love, so she will have more violent attacks when she is insecure. And Wang Yi was asked by Xiao Ju again and again, "Do you love me?" I am speechless. His expectation of marriage comes from the beautiful description in the novel. Reality is contrary to expectations. He can only say, "I don't know who to love. No one loves me, not even myself."

"Do you love me? Sure, okay? Really, am I the person you wanted since you were a child? What did you say?/Sorry? I don't know. That's why I asked you. Okay, okay, am I the one you wanted since you were a kid? Of course it is. How else would I be with you? Me too. what's up Yes.-Go ahead. Someone I've wanted since I was a child. Really? Let's get married. " This line was repeated twice in the movie. Thus, love has become a grandiose reason for marriage. Xiao Ju and Wang Yi, who entered the marriage hall in the name of "love", obviously have no ability to manage love. Their marriage was full of smoke and frequent emergencies, and they never found a solution to the crisis.

After watching this movie, I was silent for a long time, crying all over my face, and suddenly looked at my lover. Maybe there is my own shadow in the movie, insecure love and the courage to fight for love. However, it may be that the expression is not good enough, and in the end, both sides will lose. Why do two people who love each other have to express their feelings by hurting each other? I can't help asking, how far is love from reality?

If, you are in love, if, you may soon have a lover; If, you are also a person who longs for love; If you want to know how to love others, I suggest watching this movie. Sometimes, maybe we don't love wrong, but express wrong love.

"Do you love me?

Sure, okay?

Really, am I the person you wanted since you were a child?

What did you say?/Sorry?

I don't know. That's why I asked you.

Okay, okay, am I the one you wanted since you were a kid?

Of course it is. How else would I be with you?

Me too.

What is this?

It's-

Say it.

Someone I've wanted since I was a child.

Really? Then, let's get married. "

At the beginning of the film, it is this dialogue, two shadows. Ten minutes later, it's still this conversation, or two shadows. However, heroes also have different sides.

This passage moved me inexplicably.

It turns out that what women want is not men, but love.

Love is being deeply loved by a man.

This person may be Wang Xuebing or David.

Now I understand that it was not him I fell in love with, but love!

In the dark, only Wang Xuebing ran on the platform with rapid and heavy steps. I know, he will die!

Sure enough, he jumped out of a dry swimming pool. The pool of meaningful blood also confirmed David's flashing eyes.

Do you love me?

Maybe every woman has asked the same question. And have men ever answered seriously? Maybe it's perfunctory, maybe it's boring, maybe it's not caring how many women have been looking for that empty answer all their lives?

My mother often complains to me that my father doesn't do anything at home and doesn't care about her as much as before. She said that she didn't really want him to do any housework, just wanted to hear him say, "Leave it there, I'll come in a minute!" " "What a simple satisfaction, but dad never understood.

Xu took the trouble to ask, "Do you love me?" I wanted to be spoiled, but I was hurt. I didn't hear those three powerless words until the knife rest was around my neck. At that moment, who would believe that it was a fact!

I watched the film with my mother. I was in tears from beginning to end. My mother didn't say a word to me. I know she is crying, too.

Quarrel, endless quarrel, until it becomes a way of life. A word, an action, even a look. It seems to be a trivial matter, and who dares to say that he has never met it in his life!

I really feel sorry for that stubborn little woman in the film. She is like a knife, sharp, but extremely thin. Noisy, crying, running, wronged, angry ... jealous, picky, coquetry, arrogant and extremely insecure, always feel threatened and afraid. ...

In her, I gradually found my own shadow.

There was another quarrel. David said, you can stand it outside. You are so popular at work. Why can't you stand it with me?

The person who said this is really a big idiot!

I can't stand it in front of you. Isn't that because I love you? Don't you love her too? Isn't that a privilege between lovers?