Who can you talk to at any time?

"Wang said," I haven't met the right one yet. Zhu Jun asked, "What kind of girl are you looking for ...? "Wang thought about it and said seriously," I just want to find someone who can chat anytime and anywhere. " & ampnbsp & ampnbsp & ampNbsp "This is not easy?" Zhu. "It's not easy." Wang said, "If you think of something in the middle of the night, if you call her, she will say,' What time is it? How sleepy, let's talk about it tomorrow.' You immediately lost interest. Some words, sometimes, for some people, don't want to say it after thinking about it. It's not easy to find someone you want to talk to and can talk to. "Yes, I often feel the deep unspeakable taste in this sentence. It's really difficult to find someone who can chat with you anytime, anywhere. Maybe you are very popular, you know a lot of people, and there are many people who have a good relationship with you, but even your family, even your close lover, you may not be able to talk to him whenever you want, and you don't have to worry about being rude, blaming yourself or being afraid of being left out at any time. Hehe, there are dozens of names and hundreds of familiar faces in the address book. Sometimes, when I want to talk to someone, I will turn on my mobile phone, but I turn over the names one by one, and few people can make me feel at ease and calm, so I don't have to bother you politely and can speak freely. There may be times when we would rather tell ourselves a thousand times and ten thousand times in our hearts than reveal a word, some distress and boredom, some feelings and situations to the people around us. No one else has been there, so naturally we can't feel the same. An understanding person may be able to say some pertinent words of comfort, and a perfunctory person may only say a few cliches, which will make you regret revealing your heart immediately. During the day, we wrap ourselves heavily under armor and hide our true selves deeply. No matter how close you are, everyone will have scruples, and everyone you know will have guesses. It's hard to find someone to talk to at any time. It's even harder to find someone who always tells the truth. We are becoming more and more unreal, unable to find the truth and afraid to express it. Our heart, which was once as transparent as glass, is the truest heart. Now, where can we find it? I remember watching Kangxi in a TV series Kangxi Dynasty. There are 3,000 maids in the harem, but Rong Fei is his favorite. When he went to Rongfei's house, his favorite thing to say was, "I want to talk to you. "Then, pour out some state affairs and family affairs. Later, he had to abolish Rong Fei. When he was depressed, he always went to Rong Fei Palace. However, when people come to the palace, you are an emperor through the ages, but there is not even a speaker. No one tells how lonely it is. These two people's requirements for lovers are simple-they can talk. Think about it carefully, and that's it: no matter how great and vigorous you are, you are also a person, an ordinary person with secular desires. I hope to have someone who is close to your lungs, knows how to be warm and cold, and can deeply understand your thoughts and feelings to communicate with you. In this way, you won't be lonely. I once read such a passage: "Marry a person who likes chatting with you, and you also like chatting with her, so that when you are old, you will find that chatting is a person's greatest advantage. "At that time, I thought it was the feeling of a little woman. Now it seems that this is not only a woman, but also a man. Marry someone who likes to chat in the future. The world is too big, too complicated and changing too fast. Holding the hand of someone who can chat with you anytime, anywhere, you will have happiness that even Kangxi does not have. I suddenly feel that I have a clear definition of love. Rainbow Wenzhi, I seem to be looking for someone to talk to at any time. I can talk to him at any time without fear of disturbing him or worrying that he will get tired of my chatter. I smiled, and he would like to chat with me, because I have searched my phone address book more than once, but I can't find anyone to talk to at will ... and I don't know if I have grown up. I no longer care about competing with others. I think those things have long been meaningless. ......................................................................................................................................... ................ However, as I get older, I gradually find that there are fewer and fewer people who can listen to you and talk to you, and sometimes these have become my own luxury. At this time, I just want to be a good friend, and I don't want to chat with strangers all the time. I just want someone who can listen to me when I am lonely and won't feel bored. Such difficulties have always existed, and Mr. Lu Xun once said that "it is enough to have a bosom friend in life." I don't know if confidant and love can exist, but for me, they can. There may be no difference between treating a confidant and treating love. The same treatment, the same concern, different. The difference is that love is calmer, More relieved ............................................................................................................................................ & nbsp; nbsp & nbsp; PS: Actually, it is not easy for a person who is willing to talk to you at any time. He/she means that he/she is always ready to stop what he/she is doing to accompany you. Today, when you see this article forwarded by me, please close your eyes and think of the person who can talk to you at any time. Think about whether you have neglected him/her for a long time; Think about whether he/she always thinks he/she is dull and has no passion; Think about whether you take his/her company for granted in your eyes at any time ... and say forever to you because "I love you". Maybe he/she didn't say these three words, but he/she knows how to love you better.