Children are relaxed to some extent. Tell me about it.

? The rainy season has come, and rain has become a frequent visitor these days. It was sunny when I went out this morning. For ten minutes, thunder broke out one after another, and after a few minutes, the raindrops turned into downpours. As a result, the Sunday originally planned to go out became a day to stay at home and listen to the rain. The news broadcast urban water to remind pedestrians and vehicles to bypass, and flood warning to remind people to pay attention to natural disasters in flood season. In life, unexpected things always happen. It is important to guard against possible bad situations in advance, but you don't have to be too nervous and nervous. In a rapidly changing society, it is particularly important to know how to adapt to the changing situation and have the ability to improvise. Adaptability or adaptability is also an important emotional intelligence ability.

Many things need to grasp a "degree", and what this "degree" is and how to judge it, everyone has different life wisdom to understand. People with positive values know very well what is important in life, so no matter what kind of situation they face, they can always clear their minds, prioritize, have a suitable boundary scale, show a strong sense of resilience and balance, and always deal with problems properly and effectively. For example, in a parent-child salon yesterday, it was obvious that the mothers who attended the activities generally loved learning and were very attentive to their children's education, which was a good thing. There are also excessive intentions, too hard on children, too hard, too much, but not good for children's growth. At the other extreme, it is to give children "freedom" without boundaries and rules. It is said that they will become towering trees, but they don't grow well. A friend asked me about my children's future plans, such as where to go to middle school, whether to send them abroad, what major to take, and so on. Frankly speaking, I don't have a specific plan, the society is changing too fast, and my age is still growing with my gender. Why should I frame my child's future? Set in the present and relax; As for the future, wait until the flowers bloom.

"The ship moored in the port is safe, but this is not the mission of the ship", and the changes that need to be faced in life are everywhere, which is the place where life is rich and colorful. In a changing world, improve the ability to cope with change through experience. Isn't this the joy of life?