Husband has no money, and the bride price money is spent on the baby.

This is normal. It's a family now. You should think it over. Yes! ! If he idles around, then your hard life has just begun. If you just earn less money, it's nothing. It is not easy for two people to get married. Why spend money on one person? It's all for the children. As long as the family is harmonious, it will be better in the future.