Silent people don't like to talk, and communication can't find a starting point. How can I communicate with such people?

In the face of taciturn people, we should first take the initiative to talk to each other. People who are taciturn are often silent because they can't find a reason to speak and don't know how to start a topic with others.

If you can actively show your interest in each other, you can guide them to tell you what you want to know step by step by asking questions.

For example, "What are you interested in", "Tell me about your interest" and "Why don't we listen to your story" ... these words can make a taciturn person find a reason to speak.

Secondly, we should find topics of mutual interest. When you get along with people who are taciturn, talk about topics they are interested in, otherwise they will probably send you away with "I'm not very familiar with" and "I don't know". Before the topic starts, it will kill you in one sentence, and it's over. Isn't it embarrassing?

In addition, when dealing with silent people, we must have patience to understand each other and carefully distinguish the meaning of each other's silence. Silent people like to use silence instead of anger, happiness, dissatisfaction and other emotions. Therefore, when communicating with a taciturn person, we must learn to observe each other carefully and identify the specific meaning of each other's silence.

When communicating problems, choose a comfortable place to meet. They are very concerned about the safety of space, so the meeting place should not be too empty or too noisy. You can choose to meet in a coffee shop or a slightly romantic restaurant. This can not only eliminate each other's anxiety when they are in close contact with others, but also increase the topics of both sides.

Conclusion: Also be careful not to meet for too long. When the other person's eyes wander and look around, you should immediately end the topic and prepare to leave. If the problem has not been solved, then choose to make an appointment to talk about it next time.

Don't stare at each other Otherwise, it will increase the psychological tension of the other party. Therefore, when communicating with such people, to avoid positive eye contact, it is best to sweep the other person with the corner of your eye, and don't fix it in one position, but keep moving between the other person's mouth and eyebrows.