How to chat with the opposite sex is the most sultry?

1, opening remarks, chatting with the opposite sex, if it is a strange kind, it is best to start with the weather and these external things. If you are attending an activity together, you can also talk about whether this activity is fun or not. These external things are chatting.

2. When you are familiar with the conversation, you can talk about work, ask each other what they do, and spit out some things you encounter at work, but don't say it in a big way, just take a little.

After talking about work and life, we can talk about each other's personality. Don't just say "you are beautiful" to your sister, but say "you are special and different from others" and "you are a good girl with strong opinions", so that the other party will listen.

4. In the process of chatting, boys can show their gentlemanly demeanor and show their ability and financial resources, but they should not be too obvious and cause the other party's disgust. Let your sister think that you are a positive and optimistic person, and you can successfully arouse her interest.

If you want to know more about the strange opposite sex, the way to create a topic is also very simple. You can ask the other person to help you finish a simple thing or ask knowingly, such as the current time. If the other party tells you that there is no hostility or antipathy to you, you can take the opportunity to talk about other topics, thus deepening mutual understanding.

6. Finally, as a boy, you can take the initiative to invite girls. For example, if everyone is in the same city, don't directly ask each other for contact information. You can invite each other to the newly opened restaurant to taste delicious food, so that you can naturally get the contact information of each other so that you can contact each other when you eat together next time.

7. It should be noted that when chatting with the opposite sex to create topics, we must start from the perspective of mutual respect, don't talk about topics that the other party hates, and don't just talk about your own ideas and let go of your personality. It is easy for the opposite sex to think that you are not easy to get along with, and you are self-centered and try to talk in a relaxed and happy atmosphere.