Can I go back to my parents' home for the New Year?

1, the modern concept of New Year's Eve can go back to her home for the New Year, while the traditional concept is not allowed to go back to her home for the New Year.

Women can't spend New Year's Eve at their parents' home after marriage. According to the traditional family structure in China, when a woman marries, she immediately becomes a full member of the man's family. Instead, the former family has become a "relative" relationship. For example, when a woman surnamed Li marries the Zhang family, she is called "Zhang Lishi", which means. The original surname "Li" became a vice surname. A woman has officially become a member of a man's family, so it is impossible to go to a relative's house too casually. What's more, the day of family reunion on New Year's Eve. On the other hand, how can a family go to a foreign family for the New Year? In feudal society, married women often went back to their parents' homes and were scolded not only by their in-laws, but also by their parents' families. I have to be told by people around me to eat inside and choose outside.

Of course, the times are different now, and the social atmosphere has also changed. The era of great industrialization has dealt a great blow to the traditional small-scale peasant economy. As long as people can support themselves, no one needs to look at their faces. Especially people who live in cities, their in-laws and parents don't live. But the point is that people's minds have completely changed. That's all that matters. Traditionally, you can't go back to your parents' home on New Year's Eve, but now many people have played down this custom, so there is not much constraint on going back to your parents' home on New Year's Eve.