Will people fall in love with someone in middle age?

Say yes for sure. People are emotional animals and rational animals. They will fall in love with many people all their lives, and they will have love and secular desires in middle age. It's normal to meet love.

It is not easy for people to reach middle age. They have too many responsibilities to pay, they are too tired. They are busy taking care of their families and the elderly and children every day. It's good to be understood by your family. If they don't understand, they are helpless.

When people reach middle age, I think they should have their own lives. In the first half, they were exhausted for work, family, parents and children. In the second half, I don't think they need to care what others think. Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and we can't take care of them all our lives. Some things should be put aside. Do your best. Life is limited, don't dwell on it.

Middle-aged people have the right to love, which is only a matter of degree, and it is mature and rational to deal with the problem. In our daily life, when we meet people who appreciate it and hit it off, it is inevitable that there will be love after a long time, but this kind of love is appreciation, respect and commitment. This kind of love is not impulsive and passionate, nor promiscuous. In fact, as long as you keep this appreciation and heart in your heart, be affectionate and humble, and maintain normal interpersonal relationships, it is also a beautiful friendship.

If the middle-aged uncle is single, he can love boldly.

When people reach middle age, although love is no longer a necessity, it is really indescribable. I met it when I met it.

There is a saying in Lin: Falling in love with a city may be because of a vivid scenery in the city, for a childhood memory, for a familiar old house, or just for the city, just like falling in love with a person. Actually, there is no need for any reason. Love is love, no antecedents, no romance, just love.

Middle-aged people have the right to love, but they can't base their love on the suffering of others. The love of middle-aged people can't be promiscuous, can't be promiscuous, and can't love people who shouldn't love. Middle-aged people can't eat what's in the bowl and watch what's in the pot. It can't be that there are no wild flowers at home, and wild flowers are not your view.

The love of middle-aged people must be rational and rational. Some feelings can't hold hands, some people can't depend on each other.

But if you meet true love, please invite brave enough to love! ! !

Yes, when people reach middle age, they have experienced vicissitudes and seen through the changes of the world. The contrast has been deeply felt. When people reach middle age, they often fall in love with someone and can't extricate themselves.

Few people are still single in middle age, so they will still fall in love with someone, either cheating or divorcing. However, this kind of love is not as immature as it was when I was young, or it is understated or goes deep into the bone marrow.

Falling in love with someone because of cheating is mostly because of inner emptiness, which needs to comfort the soul and supplement the spiritual world. Falling in love with someone is often a kind of dependence, a reluctant and helpless attachment.

Middle-aged people who are divorced and widowed will deeply lament the vagaries of life and fall in love with someone. From the beginning, they are cautious, but they can't help it, and finally become the hopeless spiritual pillar of the other party. Love is not deep, but it is deep.

Middle-aged people are not as experienced and indifferent as everyone thinks, but they know how to cherish and care in the emotional world, and they also have heartbreak and tenderness.

Say for sure, it will!

Love is the most beautiful feeling of human beings. Some people may never meet love. What a pity.

Love is not limited by age. You are lucky if you can still meet love in middle age.

Middle-aged people have more reliable emotions and know what true love is.

However, the love of middle-aged people is emotional and ends with ceremony.

Middle-aged people are wise and rational when they can't have both.

Otherwise, the old house is really on fire and hopeless.

The hostess Francesca has a husband and a son and a daughter. The accidental meeting of two middle-aged people produced romantic love.

Francesca, when the child has grown up and doesn't need her time to take care of it, is in a trivial marriage life for many years, without the initial passion and romance between husband and wife, and is in a period of aesthetic fatigue.

Life is light as water. This kind of life not only buried her initial ideal, but also made her feel empty and depressed.

She needs to find an emotional outlet.

Her pursuit of romantic life and longing for love have not been extinguished. She is looking forward to an unknown fresh stimulus to enrich her empty spiritual world and rekindle her enthusiasm for life.

Just then, she met Robert, a man who inspired her girlhood dreams and a man who inspired a middle-aged man to suppress his inner desires, when they reached a perfect unity.

So, she has nothing? Robert and I spent four days as a happy couple. And these four days have become her thoughts for the rest of her life.

In the film, for Robert, he is single. When it comes to love, he is free and unconstrained.

But for Francesca, she has a family. She can't just think of herself. She should think of her husband and children.

In the end, for the sake of family responsibility, she gave up this unforgettable love painfully.

Fortunately, she chose responsibility.

In real life, there are many stories like movie plots, but the endings are quite different.

Many middle-aged people can't resist the temptation of love and abandon their families and children to fall in love, which is also the power of love.

However, middle-aged friends, love is like water. It can sink or capsize a ship.

Once we met, we were doomed to be forgotten.

Love is so, fate is so, stop at an unpredictable time.

Let your heart beat, make you crazy, let you burst into tears again in this life, bear the torture of feelings, and bear the pain of love but not. I deeply regret meeting you. How can grass grow without spring breeze?

It is not easy for people to reach middle age. If they meet love again and don't handle it properly, it's really beyond redemption.

After all, life is realistic and love is romantic. Life is where daily necessities fall on the ground, and love is invisible and intangible in the clouds. It is the wisest choice for middle-aged people to treat their feelings rationally.

We must understand that some love in middle age can only be blessed from a distance, and we can't hold hands. I miss desolation and become a fallen flower in the fleeting time. As long as you accumulate a real purity in your heart, a deep affection is enough.

But, no matter what, I believe that love is always beautiful. This is the love, pain and happiness of middle-aged people.

I think that when people reach middle age, no matter men or women, they will not fall in love with someone easily!

First, when people reach middle age, most of them have successful careers and are suitable for all ages. If marriage is not really bad, many people are still willing to live in peace and will not and will not break the existing lifestyle!

Second, even if there is a problem in the relationship between husband and wife in marriage, and just a heterosexual walks into her (his) life, he will not fall in love with each other easily. Maybe it's just affection, liking, or emotional transfer caused by loneliness and emptiness!

Third, when people reach middle age, both men and women are relatively mature. Don't get emotional easily. Even if the opposite sex he or she meets is particularly excellent, he or she is just trying to regain his or her youth and prove that he or she is not old. It's just a short affair, and it's a little reluctant to say true love.

I have many colleagues in their forties around me. I once asked my male colleague the same question. Is it true love that men cheat in middle age?

He smiled and said, "No, there is so much true love. At this age, I can no longer love a person and give everything for her as I did when I was young. " This sentence makes me feel that there is no shop after this village. At the same time, I also understand that every age group has its mission. Maybe I will meet the so-called second spring because of the dullness of life, but I really believe that there will never be unconditional love when I am young.

At the same time, I also consulted my female colleagues. She told me that at this age, we don't want to love anyone deeply, just want to be loved and spoiled, because this age needs more attention.

In a word, my opinion can like a person, but I can't afford to love a person. People have no time and energy to fall in love when they reach middle age.

Tell a joke first, and then slowly make sense: several friends advised a middle-aged man. That fox doesn't love you at all. She likes your money. The middle-aged man retorted: nonsense, why does she like mine instead of other people's money? It is obvious that she is in love with me.

So when people reach middle age, many people don't want to die. True love is not the majority at all, but the majority is to find a partner and live together. True love is also difficult to test. Does anyone want love instead of bread? There may be both boys and girls, and there are few middle-aged people. When people meet true love in middle age, they should put their family, responsibilities and children in a proper position and grasp a scale.

The famous writer Qian Zhongshu wrote a sentence, which is very sharp and interesting. He said that middle-aged people engaged in extramarital affairs, like an old house on fire, was hopeless. What do you mean? When people reach middle age, besides love, there are also family, responsibility, children, property, career, relatives and friends, colleagues and friends. These are all inherent things, just like an old house. Once a fire breaks out, it will burn to pieces and the fire truck can't save it. Even if the fire goes out, the old house will burn almost.

When people reach middle age, marriage is like boiled water, tasteless. Men, in particular, touch their wives' hands just like their left hands touch their right hands. A woman always likes a man who loves her. As a man, I always like 18-year-old girls. Since ancient times, heroes have been sad about beauty. In fact, men also know that it is not necessarily true love, but men can't control themselves. As long as the tools for committing crimes are not confiscated, men rarely have the determination to escape the temptation of women. Even men defend themselves. It's romantic to be a ghost when they die under the pomegranate skirt. In fact, it is to make excuses for your irresponsibility.

Extramarital affairs in middle age are very common in reality. When people reach middle age, they have some money, some power, some leisure and some freedom. If you pay attention to the side and clothes, it will still be a little lethal to some little girls. Nowadays, girls, strangely enough, just don't like boys of the same age. They always think those boys are immature. Just treasure, they tend to have a good impression on middle-aged men, of course, mainly on middle-aged men with money and jobs. Boys send roses to make girls scream; The middle-aged man sent a bunch of roses and a brand-name bag. Besides screaming, the girl felt dizzy and confused.

Middle-aged men and women, do you have true love? There may be women, but there are fewer men. When women reach middle age, they are different from men. Men can philander and release depressed emotions, while women often can't. If her husband can't take care of her, she is like a pot of sun grass on the balcony. Without sunshine and rain, she will soon wither. Men are weeds on the roadside, and they will stand up at the sight of dew. Therefore, once a woman meets a man's concern, just like withered sun grass, when she meets sunshine and rain, she will always devote herself to following. But as long as a man's husband gives her sunshine and rain, no one can take away this pot of sun grass.

Men are different. No matter how close his wife is to him, she can't stop his heart that wants to cheat. This is determined by men's nature, because men naturally feel that they are the teapot, and they have to match several tea bowls in their lives. If several tea bowls are not matched, the life of this teapot is not perfect, that is, a broken life. Any man has this idea, which has been passed down for more than 5 thousand years. So it is easy for men to ignore the temptation of women outside. Although they feel guilty about their wives at home, it is remarkable that they have not abandoned their wives. Why does my wife still care about me hanging flags outside?

So the conclusion is that it is difficult for men and women to meet true love in middle age because of family responsibilities and blood relationship. Especially in the real society, there is no hukou, no house and no work unit. How can we ignore it? Even if middle-aged men and women want to travel around the world, the question is where to live? Old parents, young children, fixed assets, unit salary cards, think about these, the head is big, even the best true love will be defeated. Even if there is true love, it is a flash in the pan.

I have heard a joke that goes something like this: Q: Do you want to eat? A: I didn't ask: Do you want to drink? A: I didn't ask: Find you a woman? Answer: Help me up slowly! This joke is about a classic conversation when a friend went to see a dying man lying in bed. I don't know if you understand when you laugh. People are still eager for the company of the opposite sex from the age of three to the old age. They are all curious and eager to explore their friends of the opposite sex. So when people reach middle age, they will still fall in love with someone. Love has no age limit. Although there is a marriage law, everyone has secular desires, and it is inevitable that there will be extramarital affairs. People who fall in love don't have to get married, but married people must be bound, or they will get divorced! When you reach middle age, even if you love someone again, you should keep this love in your heart and restrain yourself, because you are restricted. If you go your own way and don't think about repentance, you can turn back, otherwise your family will be ruined, your reputation will be ruined and you will be jailed! Finally, I ended up alone!

No matter what age, people will have a need for love and fall in love with someone. Generally speaking, in middle age, there are only two ways to treat love:

First, I dare not love if I want to love.

Some people reach middle age and become elders in the eyes of young people who should be steady and plain. At their age, what children want most is to get sick less, take care of their children at home and reduce the burden. But in their eyes, they need not only their children and grandchildren, but also a bosom friend who can accompany them and someone who can talk from the heart. However, if they fall in love with someone at this time, they will make their children daydream.

Generous children may understand their parents and think that their parents have worked hard all their lives and have the right to pursue and enjoy happiness. But those children who are more narrow-minded will think that they are middle-aged and still talk about love. What do people in this era love and don't love? Mostly for each other's money. In the end, my parents met love and dared not love it easily.

Second, find a soul mate.

Some people may be forced by their parents to have blind dates and get married in a hurry when they are young. Although I don't have any opinions on my other half, I don't have much affection. Living together is just enough, as long as there is a companion. After getting along for a long time, you regard each other as relatives, not lovers.

But in middle age, because the children are older, the time begins to get longer and the social circle is wider. It is easy for them to meet people they really like and to blend in easily. It is very happy for a man who has lost his wife to find a soul mate.

For those who still have wives, it will become a burden of happiness. After all, when people reach middle age, they have some feelings with their wives. Out of respect for his wife, he can only choose to give up silently.

So, I think people will fall in love with someone in middle age. Only some people can get it, and some people can't.

When people reach middle age, no matter whether they have a successful career or are still struggling, they will face a middle-aged crisis. When they were young, their fiery hearts gradually calmed down, and the trajectory, achievements, gains and losses of life have been roughly outlined.

Life becomes as pure and calm as white water. After work, I send my children to and from school, help them with their homework, occasionally go to the market to buy food with my wife, cook a dinner in the kitchen, watch TV after dinner and chase soap operas, or brush my circle of friends to prove my unique existence.

Only occasionally, in the dead of night, I will look at old photos. What a youthful time it was, a time of high spirits. Time is really a killing knife. Who did God spare in the end?

Can a gradually cooling heart keep nothingness and emptiness? A touch of spring climbs over the fence, and a gentle blow can instantly open dusty memories ~ ~ Yesterday, my classmates and teenagers were in their prime, singing my songs loudly and drinking my wine. On that green spring day, I began to go home. . . . . .

A new colleague came to the marketing department. She graduated from Guangzhou University, majoring in media. She is a Shandong girl, and her height is 1.72 meters. She looks weak. On arriving at the company, the male colleagues in the sales department put an end to being late.

I know this sister. When I entered the marketing department for the last interview, the marketing director and the sales director cross-interviewed together. This sister is also a character. In the face of professional marketing problems, she is eloquent and adept. In the face of sales problems, she may not have much contact and answer unprofessional questions, but she has a sincere expression, a studious attitude, a big smile, a high emotional intelligence and charming eyes constantly scanning. I'm the sales director, so I'm soft-hearted and let her pass.

The boys in the sales department often don't come to the company, or go to bars, or stay with customers. Today, everything is here. The company makes a fuss like a temple fair. The marketing department and the sales department are originally allies, so it is good to have more exchanges and cooperation in the future. I smiled and felt good.

I had several big labels to deal with myself, so I didn't go out for dinner. I added a cup of coffee to a packet of wafer biscuits, and made a fool of it.

Benedict. A gentle knock on the door pulled me back from my meditation.

"Come in, you monkeys come into my office. When have you ever knocked on the door? "

"Haha, Mr. Li, please sign for the monkey food takeaway!" I just opened it, and it turned out to be Li Qian, the new comer in the marketing department, with a food bag in one hand and a company publication in the other, looking at me jokingly.

Oh, sorry. I thought it was a colleague from the sales department who came to talk about work.

Your soldiers have long since left. I see you left without closing the door and didn't go out for dinner. Didn't I just go to work? I just read some information after working overtime and brought you something to eat. I don't know if it's to your liking.

Thank you. Please sit down. How's it going? How does the company feel?

It's good. When I came in, I found that the company was in the right place. I just read the company's one-year financial report development plan and think it is the right place.

That's good. Take your time.

Thank you, Manager Li.

Why thank me?

In the last interview, I knew that I didn't answer some questions well. You have the veto, but you let me pass. Thank you, Manager Li.

Oh, is there? I completely forgot. At that time, I thought your answers to professional questions in the market were very logical, and I didn't have much contact with the work in the sales field. It is understandable that you didn't answer well. I feel that you are a good prospect. It is not a problem to come in and fill a short board.

So, Qianmei, I am grateful to General Li. By the way, Mr. Li, I just read the company magazine Sincere Community, which contains many articles written by you. Unexpectedly, the boss of the sales department is also a great talent.

I smiled. I majored in journalism at the university. It was a mistake to switch to sales later. Now I write something occasionally, so I can't get on the table.

Really, I'll tell you why your mind is so delicate and your writing is so good.

This night, ramble, actually talked with this sister in the middle of the night.

It's already two o'clock in the morning when I get home, so I'm ready for bed after a simple wash. Didi Didi! Wechat has new information.

Li Ge, thank you for driving me tonight. Behind it is the expression of love.

"Nothing, you also go to bed early."

"I chatted with you tonight and read what you wrote. Li Ge will learn more from you in the future. " Another expression pack to hug.

"Thank you. Everyone spoke highly of you after I saw you come in. You are smart and studious, and you have a good appearance. I think you can go up in two or three years. " I smiled back.

"Li Ge. . . "

"Why didn't you finish?" I knocked on the word quickly.

"People only see what I call a beautiful appearance. In fact, every night, I read about my weakness, helplessness and loneliness. . . "

My heart is shaking.

Middle-aged men, that is "forty men and one flower", have a mature charm to attract the opposite sex.

Middle-aged women, that is, "the lotus flower reflects a different color in the sun and an almond appears in the wall", fantasize about secular love most.

Of course, in middle age, people have experienced the baptism of rich experience, experienced the ups and downs of years, the ups and downs of life, people have identity and status, and have more lust for life.

Middle-aged men, in the bustling business, come and go in the wind and rain, have too many troubles and depression, and really want to find someone to accompany them.

Think about it, the melancholy after drinking, middle-aged men really want to have a gentle woman, give him a spiritual comfort, communicate with emotions, and sort out the ups and downs in life.

Many times, a loving woman is a refuge for middle-aged men, which can give him the motivation to embark on a journey again after a sleep.

Middle-aged women, who scored twice, are the second spring in a woman's life. Not only are the customs diverse, but they are also charming. There will always be a scenery and a feeling on the road of life.

Perhaps, middle-aged women, because of their love in their hearts, always dream in fantasy, thinking that they are back to youth, falling in love with their childhood friends and their first love.

Middle-aged women in reality have endless dreams in their hearts. Boys and girls who see blind dates will think it's their past. When you meet an emotional man in your life, you will want to date in your dream. Looking at the love scenes in TV series, I will burst into tears and think that the heroine is myself. ...

Perhaps, middle-aged people with love, affection, maturity and charm in their lives can't help loving someone and seeking their true love!