Judge a person's character very accurately (enough to see through a person's character)

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In China, people have given "eating" a new meaning, which is more like a window for people to get to know each other. Often after dinner, you can see through each other's conduct.

In this complex society, some people may subconsciously "disguise" their own personality or true inner thoughts, making it impossible to tell the truth from the false.

But after dinner, you will have an intuitive impression by looking at each other's tone and attitude, as well as dining etiquette and motivation to pay the bill.

In this world, it is especially important to judge the quality of the friends you make.

Chekhov said: "People should be intellectually enlightened, morally naive and physically clean."

Eating reflects a person's adaptability and strong self-control, and also reflects the charm and boldness of dealing with people. In many details, you can see whether the other person is a selfish person through a meal.

0 order, reflecting personality.

Whether a person's character is good or not can be seen from ordering food.

The great Gatsby said, "Remember, not everyone in this world has the advantages you have."

People who really have a pattern must have worked hard, so they will respect everyone who earns income from labor. And some people, they don't have much strength, but their ability to brag is very strong, which makes people extremely disgusted.

People with bad personality like to show off and pretend to be "rich" when eating.

People with bad personality eat a lot of dishes, and when they get the menu, they start to order delicacies at random, whether they can finish them or not, or even waste them.

In fact, his extravagance and waste is to save face, to make money, to let others know that he has money, and to constantly expand his vanity in putting on airs.

Such people treat their guests as hosts, which shows that they don't care about spending money, but they never ask for other people's opinions when ordering, and they all prepare according to their own preferences, regardless of other people's tastes.

People with good character always show humility, order according to everyone's taste and try their best to take care of everyone.

0 eat, reflect the character.

People with bad character will never observe all kinds of manners at the dinner table. When they see what they like to eat, they will ignore others at the dinner table and take it all for themselves.

People with bad character eat ugly.

Obviously, he saw others holding chopsticks to hold food, but he still turned the turntable on the table hard. His desk is full of all kinds of food scraps, and the tablecloth is covered with oil stains, which is a mess.

An adult, no matter what he does, should maintain basic manners, ambitions, manners and integrity.

Doumyouji Tsukasa in Meteor Garden, whose parents are both group presidents, is usually overbearing. The first time I went to Shancai's house, I even joked that her house was not as big as her own toilet.

But at the dinner table, he showed humility and courtesy. Although it was a simple meal, he thanked Sugiyama's parents before eating.

Before dinner, he asked if he could start and didn't start eating until he was allowed. After dinner, he solemnly put down the bowl chopsticks and invited Shancai's parents to enjoy themselves. And Cunninghamia lanceolata, after this meal, began to have a better impression on him.

Therefore, no matter rich or poor, people with excellent personality will show the background color of their own personality, depending on whether they have family education and self-cultivation.

If you don't know how to respect others, you will be too selfish when eating, which will gradually keep others away from you, even if you have a good job opportunity, you will miss it.

Pay the bill, reflect the character.

"Book of Rites" wrote: "Courtesy is reciprocal, and it is indecent to go and not come; It is also impolite to come and not go. "

In this society, some people will take advantage as a habit, as if they didn't take advantage or suffered a big loss. This mentality also shows his life style.

People with bad character brag about how big the house they live in and how good the car they drive at the dinner table. They are talking about hundreds of millions of projects. When it's time to check out, they either run away or pretend to be drunk.

Have a meal with such a person, and you can clearly understand his nature, strength and boldness of vision.

People with good character know how to repay.

A person with good character will keep the other person's efforts in mind and give back more to the other person at the right opportunity. Money is not the most important thing in his heart, and mutual friendship can create more wealth.

People who are grateful will not always weigh each other's efforts in their hearts. Instead, I use my own practical actions to make the other person feel that he is a friend worth making.

A meal is enough to see through a person's character without trying.

With people, it doesn't take long to examine a person.

If you really want to have a long-term relationship with each other, invite them to dinner. You can see what kind of person the other person is from his attitude.

People with bad personality never consider other people's feelings when ordering food, only care about their own happiness, or are arrogant to the service staff.

People with good personality will take care of everyone when eating, will take the initiative to ask if there are any taboo foods, and even take the initiative to check out after meals to show their sincerity and sincerity.

When you meet someone at the dinner table, if the other person is rude when eating, doesn't know the most basic table manners and always wants to take advantage of others, then there is no need to make friends.

In fact, poverty does not matter. As long as you have ambition and grace, you will eventually meet your own Bole. In this world, not all rich people look down on people. The richer they are, the more cultivated they are.

Those who have real skills and gain fame and status by their own abilities must know the truth. Self-cultivation, caring for others, is more worthy of respect from others.

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