Why does the daughter-in-law have to travel when her mother-in-law is ill?

After getting married, I have heard a lot about my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. After all, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really difficult to get along with. Those who get along well basically don't live together, or they don't need their mother-in-law to pay or look after their children. Some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have no contradiction at first, and they are polite to each other. When they were pregnant and gave birth, they began to have conflicts.

When pregnant, it is a very important thing for women. Sitting on the moon with children basically needs the help of her mother-in-law. If the mother-in-law is in poor health or really can't help, there is nothing to say. If the mother-in-law can help but deliberately refuses to help, the daughter-in-law will definitely be angry. There is a saying called "revenge on the moon, for life."

Zhang Dan, a reader of this article, chose not to serve her mother-in-law just because her mother-in-law will not serve her next month.

"My mother is ill. You think it is inconvenient for me to go to the hospital for care. " Husband Zhang Peng said to his wife Zhang Dan. Zhang Dan was rude: "Let your mother's favorite daughter take care of her. She should show that she is so kind to her at ordinary times. I can't go alone. "

Zhang Peng was a little angry when his wife said this, but he didn't show it. Zhang Dan happened to be taking care of these children. After that, she put the child on the bed to play and began to brush her mobile phone.

Zhang Dan also wants to be a good daughter-in-law, but she can't stand the thought that her mother-in-law treats her badly. Zhang Dan and her husband met while working. Zhang Dan is four years older than him, but he is beautiful, has a good personality and speaks softly. Zhang Peng, five big and three thick, wanted to find a beautiful and petite daughter-in-law, so she chased Zhang Dan for a month before she got together.

Zhang Peng is very cautious and dotes on her daughter-in-law. When in love, she always gives in to Zhang Dan. She can buy whatever she wants, even if she takes a taxi in the middle of the night. On Valentine's Day, Zhang Peng will also send beautiful gifts to express her love for Zhang Dan. Even in summer, I bought her a winter down jacket.

When she was in love with her parents, her mother-in-law disliked Zhang Dan, thinking that she was old and short, and advised her son to break up. Zhang Dan wanted to leave when she learned that her mother-in-law didn't like her, but her husband loved her. At his insistence, they finally got together. My mother-in-law didn't want to hold a wedding for them, but she still didn't like Zhang Dan after marriage.

Zhang Dan, who wants to be a good daughter-in-law, always cares about her mother-in-law and buys her cosmetics, jewelry, clothes and supplements. Basically, after she got married, all her mother-in-law ate was from Zhang Dan. However, the mother-in-law often gives these things to her daughter.

Zhang Dan has a sister-in-law who is adopted, but her mother-in-law loves her very much, even more than her own son. After graduating from high school, Xiao Guzi didn't work hard. Basically, she spent three days fishing and two days drying nets. Later, she married a man in a neighboring village, but she preferred to live in her mother's house.

Sister-in-law doesn't like her. Every time my sister-in-law comes home, she will find fault and even arouse the concern of their husband and wife. In fact, Zhang Dan also bought a lot of good things for her sister-in-law. When she saw anything, her sister-in-law smiled at her, and she was especially cold and cheerless at ordinary times.

Zhang Dan is also eager to integrate into her in-laws' family, but no matter how hard she tries, her mother-in-law and sister-in-law always treat her badly. She is very helpless. When complaining to her husband, he just said: everyone in our family is a good person, and it may take time to accept you. But two years later, Zhang Dan felt that he had been an outsider. Every time she sees her mother-in-law husband and sister-in-law chatting and laughing together, she feels a lot.

When Zhang Dan was pregnant, she excitedly told her mother-in-law that she wished her happiness. After all, old people are looking forward to having grandchildren. But I didn't expect my mother-in-law to just say "well" and there was nothing superfluous. Almost at the same time, Zhang Dan knew the news that XiaoGuZi was pregnant. She understands that her mother-in-law is nervous about her daughter and doesn't like her at all.

When she was pregnant, Zhang Dan had a great reaction. When she took time off to give birth at home, her mother-in-law never took care of her once, only her husband came home from work to cook good food for her. Mother-in-law is busy making soup for her sister-in-law and buying her fruit. Anyway, she is too delicate to let her do the dishes. Zhang Dan felt unhappy, but when she was pregnant, she insisted that as long as her mother-in-law could take care of her confinement.

Zhang Dan gave birth to a daughter. A few days later, her sister-in-law gave birth to a son. She thinks her mother-in-law will take care of her childbirth. After all, she is a daughter-in-law and her sister-in-law has her own mother-in-law. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to come. She waited on her daughter at home, saying that she was afraid that outsiders would not serve her daughter well.

Zhang Dan was speechless and vowed not to take care of her mother-in-law. In desperation, she spent money to find a new moon. She felt that her mother-in-law had gone too far and hid under the covers and secretly cried for a long time.

Mother-in-law won't wait for next month and won't stay. Zhang Dan can only wait for her to take care of herself. It is difficult to take care of these children. The husband thinks that it is annoying for children to cry, and the relationship between husband and wife is not good, and they quarrel and divorce.

When her mother-in-law was ill, her family remembered that she had come and asked her to wait on her. Zhang is not that stupid. She sent her children directly to her parents' home and went out to travel by herself, regardless of her husband's family's stall.

Zhang Dan thinks her mother-in-law is in grade one, so don't blame her for being in grade fifteen. But she was not happy these years. As soon as she thought about all kinds of things with her husband, she felt that divorce was a big deal and she was really fed up.