Some people always say that you have changed. Why has no one asked you what you have been through?

Because no one cares about what you have experienced, all they see is what you are now.

The long river of time never stops for a moment because of anyone. Each of us is struggling in time, constantly changing, changing to become more suitable for this society, in order to make our own life better. More refined.

In life, there are always people who are surprised and say that you have changed, but no one ever asks you what you have experienced.

Your experience is really just your experience and will not affect anyone else at all. Maybe you have experienced countless bitterness and bitterness, maybe you have experienced a lot of pain and sorrow, and you have changed from an optimistic person to a person full of negative energy.

But for other people, I don’t care about your bad life at all, and I won’t have any impact on them. What they see is you with a lot of negative energy, but they are unwilling to get close to you, unwilling to be with you, and even want to run away from you.

No one cares about what you have been through. Maybe the person you love cares, but you don’t have the heart to tell her. You are afraid that she will worry about you, and you are afraid that she will be hurt.

The memories of your past may become the nourishment for your growth, but in the eyes of outsiders, they only see the changed you. We often encounter this situation in life. Several friends have not seen each other for a long time. The first words they say after meeting may be that you have changed.

Maybe it’s because you have become fatter than before, maybe because you have become more energetic than before, maybe because your temperament is different from before. In short, everyone can find the difference in you from before, it’s just you. Not aware.

Everything you have experienced may have become a stepping stone on your path to growth. But you who appear on the outside is what everyone pays attention to.

In life, complain less, change more, care less about the eyes of others, and improve your own connotation more. People will always change. I hope you can change in a good direction. Even if you experience the joys and sorrows of the world, you can still face life calmly.

Life is not easy, I hope you get better and better.