What are the eight words to thank those who have hurt me?

Thank those who have hurt me ***8 words are:

1. When difficulties and setbacks come, we should handle them calmly and optimistically, and don't rub against each other in the right and wrong between people and me. Some words are not heavy, but if we are not careful, we will fall heavily on other people's hearts. At the same time, we should also train ourselves not to be easily hurt by other people's words and change our minds.

You can't decide the length of life, but you can control its width. You can't control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can't change your appearance, but you can smile; You can't control others, but you can control yourself; You can't predict tomorrow, but you can make use of today; You can't win everything, but you can do your best in anything.

Today, I especially want to thank those who have hurt me. Thank you for creating my hard arm while hurting me, so that I can bear all kinds of blows you give me. Thank you for hurting me and making me realize many profound truths that I don't know. At this time, I have also sublimated and matured!

The older you grow up, the more you know that it is not easy to do things. The more I know that everyone has difficulties, the less I dare to look down on anyone casually, so as not to hurt anyone by mistake. Of course, this is not whitewashing or hypocrisy, but understanding and getting along with the world gently.

When you devote yourself wholeheartedly to someone, this person will often betray you. Because you have paid completely, there is no freshness and use value, human nature is disgusting, and you often don't cherish what you get. Therefore, when you are hurt, first think about whether you have paid too much and lowered yourself. If you want others to cherish you, you must first love yourself. Nobleness is precious.

6. Don't be afraid to pick roses for fear of being stabbed by them. Don't be afraid to ask for true love for fear of being hurt. Just as you can't refuse to walk because you are afraid of falling, a person's life is growing because of constant setbacks.

7. A warm word is like sprinkling perfume on others, and you will get two or three drops on yourself. Therefore, we should always be kind, walk well, do good deeds and cherish the blessings.

8. When I was young, I didn't know how to be kind because I had never been hurt. Because there is no fear, I don't know how to yield. We are willful, willful, and don't care about hurting others. When one day, we experience being hurt and understand the pain and fear, we will understand kindness and concession. But at this time, the flying and impudence belonging to youth are also leaving us.