The daughter-in-law was abused by her mother-in-law when she was pregnant. A move by her husband with high emotional intelligence easily resolved the contradiction. How did he do it?

Remember the problems of that century? I fell into the water with your mother. Who will you save first? No matter which one you choose, men are embarrassed, saving their mother and offending their daughter-in-law. Saved his daughter-in-law and called his mother a heartless "baiwenhang".

From ancient times to the present, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like a mess, which can't be sorted out and can't be let go. However, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law affects the harmony of one or even three families, and people have to pay attention to it.

At this time, the role of men is actually very important, but quite a few men don't realize that they have chosen the way of "muddling along", echoing their mothers and wives, saying that nothing has been solved in the end, but it has made the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on the verge of collapse even more tense.

But some men are different. They know their feelings and love very well. Their mother is their elder, and she is the one who gave birth to herself. It is natural to be filial to your mother, but you can't be ignorant of filial piety. Knowing filial piety is not equal to obedience. When the mother obviously showed unfair behavior to her wife, their resolute attitude gave her the greatest protection.

Such a man also knows that the person who has been with him for the longest time is his wife, and it hurts to marry him. What's more, this unrelated woman got pregnant in 10 and gave birth to her own child. This woman has devoted her youth to keeping her small family warm and tidy, so she will stand by her when she is helpless.

Brother-in-law is a very clever man, and his wisdom has always made my sister proud. Since two people fell in love, we have been used to them throwing dog food. Listening to my cousin say how smart her brother-in-law is, we have realized this more deeply since my sister married her brother-in-law.

In fact, when my cousin wants to marry her brother-in-law, her parents don't agree, because after getting along with the man's parents several times, my cousin's parents think that the man's mother is a little too strong, and my cousin is a gentle person, so my parents are afraid that my daughter will suffer after marriage.

However, my brother-in-law is a very responsible person. After understanding the concerns of the two old people, I promised again and again that I would not wronged my cousin. Seeing that his daughter was not married, the old man gave in.

Life after marriage is exactly as my cousin expected. My brother-in-law loves my cousin very much, and he does almost all the housework at home. As long as he gets off work and removes unnecessary entertainment, he will go home to accompany his cousin as soon as possible.

Seeing her daughter's happiness, my cousin's parents were relieved. After more than a year of marriage, my cousin is pregnant, which is a great happy event for my family.

Cousin's pregnancy reaction is a bit serious after pregnancy. I have to vomit for a while every morning, and my appetite is poor and I have lost a lot of weight, which makes my brother-in-law particularly distressed.

The mother-in-law learned that her daughter-in-law was pregnant and asked her son to take care of her. Her brother-in-law was naturally happy to hear this, and her cousin was grateful to her mother-in-law. However, she never imagined that after her mother-in-law came, the contradictions at home began to increase.

My mother-in-law really took care of her daughter-in-law's appetite. Every meal was changed to cooking for my cousin, and my cousin's appetite gradually improved.

In the first three months of pregnancy, my cousin's pregnancy reaction gradually eased, and people were completely new. Cousin also bought a gift for her mother-in-law, thanking her for taking care of her during this time.

However, seeing her cousin's recovery, her mother-in-law began to live a "pampered" life and stopped cooking. She began to let her cousin get up early to make breakfast, go home from work early to cook, and even mop the floor to wash clothes.

Cousin thought it was better to do one more thing, and never told her husband about it until the careful brother-in-law found that cousin was getting worse and worse, and one day she went home early, only to find out all this.

Seeing that the pregnant wife was abused by her mother, her brother-in-law was not in a hurry to blame her. He turned back to the bedroom as if he hadn't seen it.

Before going to bed at night, my brother-in-law said to my sister, "Daughter-in-law, you have suffered during this time. Don't worry, this matter will be solved by me. "

In the next few days, my brother-in-law acted like a textbook. When my mother asked my daughter-in-law to eat instant noodles, he went home every day and did not eat instant noodles for any rich meal. He heard what my mother asked my daughter-in-law to do and did it without saying anything. His mother brought all the delicious fruits to herself, and he turned to his wife.

Seeing her son like this, the old mother naturally knows what his son means. Although she didn't want to, she did change her attitude towards her daughter-in-law, thus solving the contradiction between mother and daughter.

After seeing her mother's change, brother-in-law looked for opportunities to chat with her. He said to her, "Mom, my wife was chosen by myself. If you trust your son, you believe that the wife your son is looking for must be a good woman. I love her. I hope you love her, too. You broke my heart by being unkind to her. Is it worth it? "

The old man thought about it all night and finally figured it out. Besides, his cousin is a likable person, so her mother-in-law quickly put it down.

I have to say that if every man has the intelligence and wisdom of his brother-in-law, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is likely to gradually disappear and the family atmosphere will become healthier.

A man's attitude towards his wife directly determines his wife's position in his in-laws. If a man respects, loves and loves his wife, then his in-laws will naturally follow suit. A man's maintenance of his wife is the wife's confidence in her husband's family all her life.

And if a man has no respect for his wife, or even stands by when his wife is wronged and hurt, not only will her wife be sad and disappointed, but her husband's family will become worse and the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will become more serious.

Therefore, in the game of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the role of a man can be said to be able to carry a boat and overturn it. A really smart person knows how to resolve the tension between two people without hurting either side.

When there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family, men should not hold the attitude that things have nothing to do with themselves, or even choose to escape, which will only intensify the contradiction.

It is a man's responsibility to take the initiative to solve problems. Only by playing the role of emotional adhesive can he get a happier and warmer family.