Why do middle-aged couples say they won't quarrel, but they want to get through it?

0 1. Everyone yearns for happiness when they get married, but marriage has never been in a state. Happiness or unhappiness is one side of marriage. It's just that some people give a "happy face" an "unhappy face" look. So we think that other people's marriages are happy, and our own marriages are often worse. Wang Xiu is a jealous woman who makes friends with others. Not only does she have a good temperament, but even her work income is higher than that of her peers. Her husband is in-laws. In the eyes of the outside world, Wang Xiu's life is happy, but Wang Xiu said that his happiness is fake. Since he is about to enter middle age, he has been living beside "Xu Cong likes to sleep". The core of a 40-year-old woman: the marriage of middle-aged people, even quarreling can be silent.

02. Marriage is like a river, which flows down the river below. Wang Xiu and her husband attended a friend's party. In party life, Wang Xiu and her husband are the absolute focus. Both of them are gorgeous, and most people tell others. Wang Xiu said that Wang Xiu was listening, and Wang Xiu still looked at her husband from time to time. A friend said, "I really envy you, your 40-year-old wife." I still look like a loving couple. I must also commit crimes at home. How can you make love middle-aged? " I heard from a friend that Wang Xiu and her husband didn't say much, but just smiled. They are a happy couple. If you hadn't experienced it personally, you might not have thought that Wang's husband was just angry before you went to the party.

Before attending the party, Wang Xiu chose clothes in the room, while her husband watched TV in the living room. Wang Xiu chose her strapless dress.

At first, I wanted to ask my husband's opinion. Thinking of my husband's indifferent attitude, I was silent and didn't ask.

That's it. Even quarrels can be settled.

On the way to the party, they didn't say anything, but when I got off the bus, my husband was used to the auto show and could use his arms.

This is not a habit of falling in love, but to keep an image in front of people.

The core of a 40-year-old woman: the marriage of middle-aged people, even quarreling can be silent.

After the party, I sighed with my husband on the way, his explosion point.

Wang Xiu asked her husband loudly, "You are sighing! From the beginning, I will see that you feel uncomfortable every time and show your face. "

My husband doesn't want to show weakness: "I sighed, when is my breath?" This is that you don't know others. "

Then the two men have reached the old account, arguing and aimlessly.

After putting on the ring, Wang Xiu said, "You just don't want me to wear a skirt. Be careful. "

The husband said, "Be careful what that is. Don't show movies. It's too shabby. Look at this party. Just like what you are wearing. "

Middle-aged marriage can choose silence, because they don't want to quarrel, or because of a small explosion point, they start a dramatic and daunting quarrel.

Such quarrels are often settled.

After all, after the quarrel, Wang Xiu and her husband went back to the room of the house. Because of the quarrel, the two have continued until now.

05. Xiaoxiang unlocked Lu Huanghong and said, "The children of middle-aged couples can do well in nightmares."

Many women who are experiencing middle-aged marriage complain: "The most intimate behavior of a husband is also holding hands."

Although Xu En likes sleeping, I don't know how many couples Wang Xiu and her husband are. Before people try to stay married, it's just another kind of person, and marriage always seems to be behind. Performance is the same.

Some people say that middle-aged marriage is like this. Marriage is the cost of clothes for two people.

Actually this sentence is wrong.

If Wang Xiu and her husband, one of whom is a "soft servant", may not have a house to sleep in, and if Wang Xiu and her husband will take the lead in speaking in an indifferent atmosphere, their own ideas may not quarrel.

Middle-aged couples "sleep beside Xu Ai". In fact, they have feelings, but they have a correct attitude to solve emotional problems.

Always face problems with "hardship" and "quarrel", naturally more and more problems are difficult to solve.

06. When we are used to the painting mode, it is usually difficult to change it. In fact, any emotional relationship needs to be managed, and so does marriage.

Getting married in middle age doesn't necessarily mean "Xiu Shang likes sleeping here". Communicate more, be less indifferent and have more normal emotions, such as sharing happiness, caring, gentleness, anger, quarreling and accusing middle-aged marriage, and you can be happy after others.