How does your mother-in-law treat you after pregnancy?

Xiaoli: "my husband and I have been married for two years, but my husband's family has been hinting that we want children, but we never want them." We are 27 this year, so we should. We found out that we were pregnant in August and called our mother-in-law on the Mid-Autumn Festival. She said quietly, really? Well, just tell me, just pay more attention to yourself. "

Xiao Li: "One day, my mother-in-law asked me to sign up for a yoga class for pregnant women. She said that she read in a magazine that yoga during pregnancy can relieve some pregnancy symptoms and help delivery. She felt very good and said hello to the club near her home to let me have a look. Later, I reported it as she wished. "

In the face of daughter-in-law's pregnancy, mother-in-law will have different attitudes. "Every family has its own classics", and one of them is called "Mother-in-law Classics". In the family, the most obvious and common contradictions and conflicts between the two generations appear in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In today's society, how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also become a hot spot of concern, because whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled harmoniously directly affects the harmony of a big family. Dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law during pregnancy is more related to the health of pregnant women and fetuses.

1 Mother-in-law is not good at cooking, which is not good for her daughter-in-law.

It is natural for a mother-in-law to treat her daughter and son better than her daughter-in-law. There is no need to be jealous. My mother-in-law is kind to other girls, and my daughter-in-law can understand, because it is normal for everyone to see people who are pleasing to the eye for no reason. During pregnancy, if your mother-in-law doesn't make you good food and take care of you like your own mother, you don't have to care too much. Never compare your mother-in-law with your mother. This is incomparable! Don't say that the mother-in-law is not good for herself, and she is angry and bad for the fetus.

The mother-in-law can't see her husband doing any housework.

Because the mother-in-law loves her son too much, it is inevitable that her daughter-in-law will feel alienated. What the son can do by himself will also blame the pregnant daughter-in-law for her tired son. In this case, the best choice for expectant mothers is to let their husbands persuade their mothers themselves.

The mother-in-law is too enthusiastic for the daughter-in-law.

Sometimes distance can rule out many possible problems. We must admit that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not mother and daughter. Without blood ties, there will be less mutual tolerance and understanding after contradictions occur, and there will be more natural status opposition. Many small things and words that are nothing to ordinary people often intensify into irretrievable contradictions. Therefore, even if your mother-in-law is "nice" and cares about you and the fetus everywhere, the expectant mother should not do whatever she wants, but keep a certain distance from her mother-in-law.

4 Different living habits of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lead to contradictions.

Habits are hard to change, especially for the elderly who have developed lifelong habits. Daughter-in-law can't stop just because she doesn't like her mother-in-law's behavior, so she will only face more confrontation. A daughter-in-law should not try to be brave everywhere. It is best to be a "not bad" person during pregnancy. Respect your mother-in-law, respect her various living habits, communicate with her mother-in-law in time, and see what is uncomfortable in her life. Her mother-in-law will naturally feel your respect and respect you.

Five people speak consistently and learn to praise their mother-in-law.

For example, "My mother-in-law is one of the best warmhearted people in the village. Although she doesn't read much, she is still very lively and organized. "It is my blessing to have such a good mother-in-law." Few people can resist the attack of "sugar-coated shells", and mother-in-law is no exception. When you praise her in front of others, you will naturally have a good impression on you.

Dealing with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law during pregnancy will make your pregnancy much warmer. Have all the expectant mothers learned?