How do soldiers get along with their wives after marriage?

I especially admire the soldiers, because they built the Great Wall with their own flesh and blood and defended our country. It is because of their protection that we can get a stable and peaceful life now. While we admire them, we can't forget that there are still a group of military wives behind them who are quietly paying.

A military marriage, separation, they always have to bear more acacia and family responsibilities. Military wives also need more care. If a soldier wants to protect this love with his wife and create a harmonious and happy family after marriage, he still needs to show more concern and care for his wife.

First of all, as we all know, as soldiers, troops are always stationed in remote areas. For most soldiers, the wife lives apart and doesn't see each other several times a year, while the wife silently takes care of the children and the elderly at home. Even if they are ill or encounter any difficulties, their husbands can't be with them. So they are not only stressed, but also eager for support.

As a soldier, there is always a time when you don't need to train or perform tasks. You can use this time to write more letters to your wife, ask about the situation at home and care about her life. Let her feel that your love is everywhere, and let her feel that you are thinking of her besides training, so that even if life is bitter, her heart is sweet.

Secondly, due to the excessive pressure of military wives, sometimes there will be disputes with soldiers. At this moment, don't make a scene with your wife, but don't just be silent. You should hug her hard and tell her that you know her hard work and you sympathize with her, and you must actively communicate and explain the problem to avoid misunderstandings and contradictions between the two people.

Finally, soldiers always have holidays. When the holiday is coming, you must take care of your wife to the greatest extent when you get home, and do some work within your power to let your wife feel your concern for her and love for this family.

I once read a news story. The hero of the news is a soldier and his wife. His wife can't cook. The soldier cooks a lot of vegetables and cooks a lot of meals every time he goes home. Then he put them in a box and put them in a big refrigerator to freeze. When his wife needs to eat, he takes them out and heats them. I think his approach is very clever. Not only the box lunch, but also his full care and love. When the wife eats these box lunches, she will think of her husband, which is a good opportunity for the couple to enhance their feelings.

Therefore, between soldiers and military wives, you can also have a romantic and warm life. The key is that you should pay your own care and love.