Exercise one's eloquence

Exercise your eloquence, the times need talents, and talents need eloquence. Talents are not necessarily eloquent, but they must be talents. Talent is precious in eloquence, and eloquence is bound to become talent. How to exercise your eloquence, here are some tips I share.

Exercise your eloquence 1 A three-inch golden tongue is better than a million teachers.

Eloquence is actually a person's ability to speak.

Anyone can speak it, but it is not easy to speak it well, logically and persuasively.

Some people speak in public, their minds are blank, and they don't know what to say and where to start. Some people, with unclear logic, talk a lot, but no one can understand them. Others, watching endless discussions, want to participate but have nothing to say.

People with poor eloquence will have communication obstacles in their careers, and it is difficult to win the favor of their dream lover in love. Let's look at people with good eloquence. Their bon voyage not only won the trust of their boss, but also made them very happy.

From this perspective, it is necessary to exercise your eloquence. Moreover, eloquence is a personal ability. If you exercise good eloquence, you will benefit for life.

So what can I do to improve my eloquence?

Before a person speaks, he must have something to say in his heart. If you have no idea what to say, when it's your turn to speak, you can only stand there in a daze in embarrassment.

Why is there nothing to say? Because you haven't found the theme of your speech yet.

If there is such a theme, "Tell me about the dishes cooked by your parents, which one do you like or dislike, and why?" "

I think everyone has something to say. Maybe you will say, "I like spareribs best, which is especially fragrant", or maybe you will vomit, "I hate stewed chicken, which is so spicy". In short, it is this theme that arouses your desire to speak.

So, how to exercise your ability to find a topic?

It's simple. When something happens, speak at three o'clock.

Just say three if you need anything. Specifically, I will find three topics in a certain order. This order can be chronological or structural.

The chronological order is past, present and future.

Structural order refers to the arrangement of things in parallel.

For example, old classmates have dinner and let you say a few words.

If you follow the chronological order, you can find these three points, "the fate of acquaintance (past), the joy of meeting (present), and the expectation of the future."

After finding these three themes, you can say, "From 20 12 to 20 15, we spent three years together. Although these three years are short, they are my most cherished time. We study together, grow together and make progress together. Thank you for your company, which made me have a happy time. Today, we come back from all over the world to renew our previous destiny. Everyone must have a good talk and have fun. We are the closest people sitting together. (Expectation for the future) In the future, we should arrange more parties, keep in touch with students and help each other. Finally, I hope you all become big bosses so that I can have a backer in the future, haha. "

For another example, at a company meeting, the boss asked everyone about the company's development. You can find these three points in the structural order, "product design, sales method and procurement cost".

According to these three themes, you can say, "I have three suggestions. First, although our product design is very good, the product form is too single. According to different usage scenarios, we should make more targeted products. Second, we have too few sales channels. We suggest to find some agents and set up online sales points, which can increase sales. Third, our production costs are somewhat high, so we should try to find foreign procurement channels to reduce costs. "

If you learn the method of "telling three things when something happens", you will no longer have to worry and have nothing to say. Moreover, it will make you speak clearly and make people look up.

So how to exercise this way of thinking?

Quite simply, practice more in daily life and try to find three points of interest from a topic.

For example, when you are chatting with a friend, he asks you, "Is your mobile phone easy to use?" You can find these three points, "clear shooting, fall resistance and long standby time".

If you want a simple answer, list three main points, "Easy to use, very clear to take pictures, very resistant to falling, and long standby time."

If you want to answer a little more complicated, you can expand three topics, "Easy to use, this phone has two cameras, the resolution of the rear camera is 8K, the resolution of the front camera is 4K, and the zoom 16 times. Even if it is far away, it can be photographed clearly. It is also very resistant to falling. Once, the mobile phone rolled down the stairs without breaking anything. Once charged, it will last for a long time. If you insist on playing games, you can insist on not charging for one day. "

Practice more, and you will soon find three topics of the current topic, and then start according to the actual situation.

"Three" is just a pronoun. Keep the change. Whether you find two o'clock or five o'clock, it's fine. Of course, if you want to find the right point quickly, you need to practice more and summarize more.

This method is simple and practical, and is suitable for people who want to improve their expressive ability quickly. If you want to improve your eloquence systematically, you need more detailed systematic training. However, this "three things to say" method is enough to cope with most social occasions.

Exercise your eloquence 2 How to train your eloquence at home?

1, read aloud.

Read it by yourself and read it out loud. Read some articles every day, not only to practice articulate speech, but also to accumulate some knowledge and information. More importantly, it is of great benefit to the body, clearing the throat and expanding the chest, collecting the qi of heaven and earth, and becoming a noble body! Everyone should read more positive articles, especially the greatest salesman in the world. We strongly recommend that you read carefully. Read aloud for more than half an hour every day for two or three years. You don't have to be a master to become a master!

2. Train in front of the mirror.

I suggest that you install a big mirror on the wall of the living room or office, and train yourself in front of the mirror every day, train your eyes, train your expression and train your body language during reading, so that the effect is better.

3. Self-recording and video recording.

If conditions permit, I suggest you shoot your own voice and talk once every other week, so that you can repeatedly observe and study where I am stuck, where my gestures are not in place and where my expression is unnatural. Over time, your eloquence will naturally improve rapidly. Looking at your own camera once is better than going on stage ten times and twenty times.

4. Try to lie down and read aloud.

If you want to practice first-class luck skills and first-class singing skills, I will teach you a very simple method, that is: lie down and read aloud! When we lie down, it is bound to be abdominal breathing, and abdominal breathing is the best way to practice sound and breathing. Read aloud in bed for ten minutes before going to bed every day. Before getting up every day, lie in bed and sing a song before getting up. Stick to it for a month or two, and you will feel that you are breathing smoothly, with a loud voice, beautiful sound quality, more penetrating and more magnetic!

How to train your eloquence

1, enhance self-confidence

To make friends with strangers quickly, you must have a good psychological quality, so that you dare to talk to people and then have a deeper interaction. To improve your self-confidence, you'd better start trying things you didn't dare to do before, dare to challenge difficulties and open your heart.

2. Accumulate conversation capital

The purpose of accumulating conversation materials is to make you talk with others better and have more things to share with others, which will make your conversation more meaningful. And good conversation resources come from your tireless study. Read more, read more. When you meet good words, sentences and paragraphs, you might as well record them.

3. Participate in more social activities.

To improve your communicative eloquence, you must go out more and stay at home less. You should not only participate in more social activities, meet new friends and strengthen your friendship with old friends, but also communicate with them more to exercise your communicative ability and eloquence.

Step 4 think rationally

Learn to think rationally, think about how to improve your eloquence, think about what to say, and think about how to express yourself to make people feel comfortable. You should think rationally before you say a word. Don't be impulsive, talk nonsense, it's easy to offend others and leave a bad impression on others. Over time, your reputation will become a mess, and people are afraid to associate with you.

How to cultivate eloquence

(1) story contest. The class holds a story contest every two weeks. First, in the group, everyone speaks and comments. Those who speak well in the group are selected to speak in the class and evaluate the students' language attitude, pronunciation and intonation, whether the language is accurate and fluent, and whether the meaning is clear. Praise the advantages and point out the existing problems, so that oral training can be carried out in a relaxed and happy way, thus improving students' oral expression ability.

(2) Reading Excellent Poetry Competition. Hold an excellent text recitation contest once a month. Mainly students collect and recite good articles after class, such as newspapers and magazines such as "Pupils must recite ancient poems" or "Pupils read newspapers". Through this activity, on the one hand, students can actively accumulate languages, on the other hand, they can be provided with an opportunity to show and use languages, and students will be more interested.

(3) Carry out a one-sentence news activity. Every day at noon writing time, our class carries out a one-sentence news activity, telling everyone what they have seen, heard or experienced in one sentence, and judging once a semester. Whoever publishes more news and speaks well will be rated as an excellent novelist. In this way, students are trained to observe life carefully and make full use of the speaking resources in life.

How to cultivate excellent eloquence

1, often read

Nowadays, many teenagers are used to not reading. Actually, this habit is not good. If you are going to practice your eloquence, you must read more good books and learn to read them with emotion and sound. In this way, you can learn a lot of knowledge and practice your pronunciation well.

Step 2 communicate more

There are always relatives, friends and classmates around. Get close to them, chat with them and share their life experiences and interesting things. Your knowledge and experience will continue to grow, your speaking style will continue to increase, and your speaking skills will become better and better. Good eloquence is accumulated bit by bit.

Step 3 tell stories

You can tell more stories, try to tell a story through words, or make up a story. In any case, you need to think about how to tell a story vividly, interestingly and truly, and make people deeply fascinated by your story. After that, you should think about your own shortcomings in expression and wording and try to correct them.

Step 4 imitate more

To improve your eloquence, you should watch more other people's speeches, imitate and learn the good aspects of other people's speeches, such as speaking style, pronunciation and intonation, body language and so on. Then take the essence and discard the dross, and gradually form your own speaking style.

Exercise your eloquence 3 0 1 and practice psychology.

Good eloquence requires good psychological quality. Public speaking is a process of training your psychological quality, the core of which is to convey your thoughts to the audience, but the most sad thing for many people in public speaking is to face the audience on the stage, which shows that your psychological quality is not strong enough, so you will be nervous and unable to speak well.

As the saying goes, opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared. Go if you have the opportunity, and create opportunities if you don't have the opportunity. If you want to make a good public speech, you must break through yourself and boldly come to power. In private, you can go to crowded parks and streets to recite expressions independently, without worrying about other people's eyes. It can be a short story or your own experience, so as to train your psychological quality of speaking in public.

02. Practice listening

Practice speaking and listening. Look, this is the premise of the agreement. Good eloquence does not mean how much you can speak, but whether you can speak well, to the point and to the point. Not much to say, just incisive. We should be good at listening between the lines.

When listening to others, listen carefully before you think carefully. Why did he say that? What does he mean by saying that? Does he want me to understand what that is? Ask yourself a few more reasons. At the same time, we should also listen to the environment, the tone of the speaker and so on.

03, master more knowledge.

No ink on your chest, no eloquence. I can only talk at most. To give a person a glass of water, you have to have a bucket of water. Usually, we should accumulate more knowledge, which is a process of accumulation and needs a process of precipitation.

So where do we accumulate knowledge? First, professional knowledge. The professional knowledge of your industry is what makes others want to listen to you.

Second, social and humanistic knowledge should not only talk about one's own professional knowledge from time to time, but also talk about what everyone knows and express one's views together, which requires social and humanistic knowledge, so that one will not be embarrassed when talking about unfamiliar topics.

04. Practice Mandarin

Our standard of Putonghua doesn't need to be the same as that of announcers (except announcers), but at least it should be passable, so as not to make others feel that our Putonghua has serious problems.

05, practice thinking

The mouth is the door to the soul. Tell the truth. Language is actually a reflection of one's inner thoughts, and good eloquence needs the assistance of keen thinking. From the perspective of psychological principles, thinking and language are closely related, and what language achieves is the result of thinking activities. If thinking is not agile, clear and rigorous, language expression cannot be smooth and clear.

06. Practice body language

Through the research of behavioral science and network science, a person's body language accounts for 55%, pronunciation and intonation accounts for 38%, and words only account for 7% in the process of expression. When we talk about body language, the first thing we should do is to avoid inappropriate body language, such as blurred eyes, being at a loss, shaking our bodies, walking frequently and so on.

The so-called correct body language is nothing more than four aspects: eyes: looking at the audience, looking at different audiences; Including the expression of natural standing posture: straight and steady; Gestures: naturally, while avoiding holding your chest, putting it in your pocket and carrying it behind your back; Move: Move appropriately when necessary, such as entering different chapters or interacting with the audience.