Go home often when you have time, and talk to your parents more often!

I remember seeing this saying that was particularly good: When your parents are alive, there is a layer of cushion between you and death. When your parents leave, you sit directly on death.

Honoring your parents is not just a matter of doing it at a certain moment, but all the time. When we are busy in life, we should not forget our parents far away in our hometown. Even a few words on the phone will not delay them. It took a few minutes, but the parents on the other end of the phone must be happy.

In fact, parents don’t want much. It’s just that you can remember them in your heart, instead of being like a stranger and saying nothing. Sometimes it’s easier for relatives to let go. People are disappointed. Sometimes they wait with great expectations for you to go home and have a meal with them, but when you call them, they say they are too busy and will eat some other time. Can you imagine the lonely look on their faces after hanging up the phone?

Especially when I saw that my parents often dyed their hair black but could not cover up their gray hairs, at that moment, I felt that my parents were really old.

Every time I go home, I will tidy up the flowers and plants at home, turn over them, change flower pots, and fertilize. Every time, my mother is watching. She often teases me and says There was dirt everywhere I made it. If she asked me to help me with it, I would say, "It's not tiring. Just watch it. I'm afraid I'll offend your old waist." Every time I said she was old, she would retort with a smile. I am young.

After I left home, she would take pictures of all the flowers and tell me which potted flowers had grown and which ones bloomed again. There were not many pots left, and she would also tell me to buy more. A few. Because of these flowers, my family and I have more topics to talk about and interact with each other. In fact, this is quite good. We know that each other is doing well and we can share joy with each other.

My parents actually don’t have high requirements. They just want me to grow flowers, raise chickens, and catch fish in my old home when I get old, as long as I don’t disturb their retirement plans. ,,Ha ha.

The elderly have their own retirement plans and find their own interests, and their lives will be full of fun. Maybe this kind of fun is something I cannot give. The only thing I can do is respect every one of them. Decide so that they can live happily and freely without constraints.