What psychology is a woman having an affair in marriage? Listen to what these three women have to say.

Everyone knows that extramarital affairs are the biggest killer of destroying marriage. At the moment of marriage, both men and women hold the mentality that they can be together for a lifetime. But with the passage of time, the feelings between husband and wife will gradually alienate because of the pressure of life and complicated trivial matters.

Many times, women are emotional, and they want to be cared for and taken care of. Because of this, once a woman can't get the warmth between husband and wife, she is likely to resist the temptation and do deviant things.

In fact, for most people, both men and women, although they will be infatuated with the beauty of extramarital affairs, they will not want to divorce. Because when people reach middle age, there are already too many obstacles, whether for parents or children, they will not go to divorce unless they have to.

When a woman has an extramarital affair, it is precisely because she doesn't want a divorce that she will be entangled in her heart. So what do women think after having sex outside marriage? I interviewed three women and they told the truth.

@ Ms. Liu, I feel a little guilty. My husband and I are college classmates. We have been married for so many years, and he has always been very kind to me in life.

It is said that there is a seven-year itch between husband and wife. At first, their life was sweet and happy, but after a long time, this warmth could not be felt. Two people together are nothing more than trivial things, and sometimes even communication is pitiful.

For such a situation, I didn't have any special ideas at first, thinking about it. Later, however, I met a man who moved me in the company. He is gentle and considerate, which makes me feel love again. Later, because the company sent the two of us on a business trip, it naturally happened.

In fact, after the affair, I regret it. I feel guilty every time I face my husband. Since then, I have never done anything wrong to my husband, because he is very kind to me. If I do anything wrong to him again, I will feel guilty inside.

@ Ms. Li, always be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, with mixed feelings. In the final analysis, cheating is a shameful thing. Although my husband and I have no feelings, because I still have two children, it is impossible to divorce for the children.

My husband and I have been together for ten years. To tell the truth, my husband is an honest man. When I first got married, my parents said that I wouldn't be angry if I married him. But I really didn't feel angry after I got married, but my husband didn't do anything because he was honest, which made me very disappointed.

It is said, but it is not known by those who have been poor together. When a family is worried about life, its heart will be exhausted. Later, I met him in the company. He is both capable and enterprising. Although I know that he has a family and won't divorce and marry me, I realize the charm that a man should have from him.

After the affair, I was still very happy because I liked him, but I was also very sad because I was afraid my husband would find out.

@ Ms. Chen, I have mixed feelings. My husband and I met in free love. When we first got married, we were all very happy and sweet. But when two people are together for a long time, quarrels and complaints will increase.

To tell the truth, I am really heartbroken about this change in my husband. Maybe because I didn't want to be cared about, I fell in love with a male colleague in the company. After cheating, when facing her husband, she always has mixed feelings, guilt and revenge.

In fact, for women, they are eager to be cared for and valued. When they don't feel warm at home, they are likely to seek comfort from the outside world.

You should know in life that the feelings outside marriage seem beautiful, but in fact they are just a flash in the pan. It is not easy for two people to be together. I hope everyone can be loyal to marriage. Only in this way can two people be together for life.