What did your relatives do to make you feel cold?

My relatives have done so many things that make me chilling. Give me three days and three nights to speak half. Tell me one with a particularly deep memory.

I have two uncles, both older than my mother. When I was a child, I felt very close to my mother's relatives, except that my father seemed to be out of place with them. Anyway, I didn't like it. At that time, I was too young to understand my dad, and I always thought he was looking for trouble. Later, I learned that my father was right, because something happened, my mother's relatives broke up completely, and the relationship was so bad that the two uncles completely stopped talking. The bane is my two aunts.

My grandfather is a worker in the system. At this time, the child took over. Grandpa retired and my uncle took over, mainly doing manual labor. Originally, my second uncle didn't want to take over from the beginning, so he had to learn a trade, and later he studied electrician. After all, my second uncle studied technical work, which is much more decent than my big uncle's work. I always feel that he is more promising than my great uncle and complacent. Until the house price began to soar, my uncle didn't like anything. Start looking for trouble. Because my uncle's family caught up with the housing distribution policy, although it was old and small, it was at least a building. One spring festival, because of the succession, the family fought at grandpa's house.

My second aunt pointed to my grandfather in his 70 s and said that he was partial and let my eldest brother take over and have a house. Their family has nothing. My aunt tugged at my second aunt's clothes and said she was not satisfied. The family followed the old couple to eat and live, and the old man took care of them. My cousin was also coaxed by the old couple. There are three of them, and they didn't buy anything cheap. In order to take care of the children, she quit her job and didn't earn money at home. There was a terrible quarrel. Finally, grandma cried almost fainted, and grandpa smashed the vase, and the war stopped. Later, my father sent my grandmother to the hospital, but fortunately it was nothing serious. My mother cried to break up with her two uncles. Menstruation people also said that my mother had nothing to do, which caused my mother to die in a property dispute, and the water spilled by menstruation, whom I married, and so on. Then my mother got angry and kept crying.

The two uncles never spoke again after their aunts' tears. Until many years later, grandpa died. Speaking of this, I was so angry that the next day, just after my grandfather buried the bones, the two uncles began to fight for property. The house can't be solved for the time being, so share the money. My second aunt said that my uncle's family took money from my grandfather, and he never paid it back when he was alive. He wanted to pay it back and share it equally. Of course, my aunt doesn't want to. She insisted that the money was given by my grandfather voluntarily, not borrowed, not returned. In the long run, I almost fought again. At this time, my grandmother has no strength to care about them. My wife just didn't. It was too late to cry. Why should I care about that? Later, I had to ask my mother to do notarization to see how they divided the money. I don't know how to divide it in the end. It stopped anyway. As a result, I got an extra 20 thousand yuan. Uncle means to give this money to my mother. After all, my mother is also my grandfather's child. My second uncle said to leave it to grandma, and my mother is not qualified to take money when she is married. At that time, my mother had long been disheartened and didn't want money, so she left a message to the two brothers: Be brave, your children are watching. Don't do this to you all the time, it will pay off sooner or later. ?

Many years later, although my mother really despises these two uncles, after all, my grandmother is still there, barely maintaining a relationship, and still walking around during the Chinese New Year holiday. I think my mother is just too kind. Anyway, it has been five or six years since my grandfather died, and I have never seen them again. I don't want to waste my limited life on people who are denied by my six relatives for money.