My daughter-in-law earns 3000 a month and spends 2000 on crayfish. I feel frustrated. What should I do?

Daughter-in-law will spend too much money, what should I do?

The consumption concept of the post-90s generation is very different from that of the older generation. To put it bluntly, many post-90s generations, whether sons or daughters-in-law, treat them as treasures at home before marriage. They haven't done much housework or suffered much, don't know the hardships of making money, and spend a lot of money.

Unlike many elderly people, who have suffered, been hungry and have no money to live, they know that it is not easy to make money and cherish every penny.

Therefore, it can be seen that many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law now have friction because of the problem of spending money.

The contradiction caused by eating crayfish, crayfish is particularly expensive now, from five yuan cheaper to more than ten yuan more expensive. In a family, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is caused by spending money on crayfish.

A daughter-in-law made such a dynamic in a circle of friends, calling: What happened to eating crayfish with my own money? I won't have a second child.

This wife is drying the chat records of her mother-in-law and her husband. In this chat record, her husband said to the old woman, "Mom, Niu Niu wants to sign up for riding training, and the tuition fee is almost the same?"

The old woman said, "I just gave you a couple 65,438+00,000 last month. Why is there no money? "

Besides, when your daughter-in-law goes to work, can't she supplement her family every month? "

The husband made two smiling faces and said, "Mom, Tingting earned 3,000 yuan a month after she came back to work, and she ate them all."

Then the husband sent his wife a series of bills to eat crayfish, and continued to vomit: "Eating crayfish at home all day, it is estimated that I can eat more than 2,000 this month."

Mother-in-law said, "You are a prodigal son-in-law. I'll tell her how to spend so much money. "

The husband said, "Mom, don't."

Mother-in-law: "Don't worry, it costs 2,000 yuan to eat crayfish with a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan. I can be eaten by her with high blood pressure. There is also this way of eating, how to have a second child, crayfish is poisonous. "

This contradiction came out, mainly because my mother-in-law thought I was a bit extravagant with my money. Earn 3 thousand a month and spend 2 thousand to eat crayfish. It's a good deal.

Besides, both husband and wife can't live. They often ask their mother-in-law for money to subsidize small families, and their daughters also ask her mother-in-law for tuition, which shows that the couple really don't know how to manage money.

Husband is irresponsible, thankless inside and outside, unable to be a man and do things. Even if the wife spends a lot of money, she should go forward to persuade her instead of speaking ill of her daughter-in-law, which will deepen the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

My mother-in-law sometimes interferes too much. In the affairs of their small family, the mother-in-law should let them struggle for themselves first and stop subsidizing them.

Because her mother-in-law has been subsidizing them, when will the young couple grow up?

In addition, the mother-in-law's hands should not be too long. As for whether or not to have a second child, it is entirely up to the young couple to decide for themselves, and the mother-in-law should not interfere too much.

In this way, the daughter-in-law has a rebellious mentality. Even if she is willing to have a second child, her mother-in-law will not be willing to have a second child.

Finally, the daughter-in-law problem. Daughter-in-law spends too much money, which is for sure. Although she is not spending her own money, she should consider the actual situation at home.

When a woman gets married, she has not only a family to take care of, but also a daughter to support. She should not only consider her feelings, but also eat and drink well. What should I do to spend money on this family?

As a husband, you should go out and work hard to earn more money for your daughter and wife. As a mother-in-law, we should ease the contradiction between husband and wife and try not to interfere in the affairs between the young couple; As a daughter-in-law, you should also think more about your family, not just your own pleasure. I believe that if you do this, the whole family will be happier without so many contradictions.