Very comfortable chatting skills. Can you tell me something about it?

It's a comfortable and deadly chat skill. I think I talk too little, and I'm stunned. I think I won't talk now, but I will talk later. Please see! I tell you, the highest level of chatting is not that you can talk, but that she can feel comfortable during the conversation. Chatting is skillful, but the method is not difficult. You must study hard. The core idea of effective chat is to treat each other as the subject of every sentence. No matter what she says, every step of your life revolves around the other person, which makes her feel cool that she is the protagonist. But even this would not be enough You need a little heat, so I'll give you two suggestions.

First, recognize her emotions. Woman, that sentence can be summarized as: I know everything, but I don't want to hear it. Therefore, when chatting with a girl, as long as you show your recognition of her emotions, she must be you. For example, she said, "Someone buried me. She said I was dressed too rustic. She said I could ring the bell at Notre Dame." If you just say to her, "I tell you as a friend that there is something wrong with the skirt." Then I tell you, she just can't beat you. If she wanted to beat you, she would have turned against you. What should I do? "Who said that the clothes you are wearing are ugly? Everyone knows that she is ugly. How dare you judge others?" When she hears it, she must think that you understand her. You know her. How can women be wrong? Swear to her must be right.

Second, emotional offensive. Question and answer+emotional expression+keyword feedback. Chatting is the most taboo question-and-answer dialogue. Treat a friend as a prisoner, she won't cut you, because she has quality. What should I do? "What will you do in the future?" "Go shopping later" "Where to go shopping later?" "I have to go shopping on such a hot day. There must be a little brother around to help you with your bag." Whether you watch it or not, your friendliness is doubled. If you want to keep talking, just throw back a wave of keywords. "I'm going to buy something later. I want to buy an ultra-luxurious princess sweet pink mobile phone case with diamonds. Why don't you take a look at it for me? " So you can talk to her forever and ever, and be immortal. It's hard enough to walk through thorns in life. If you still reason with me, I'll cut you off the next second.