No matter how good the relationship between a couple is, what words should they not say when they quarrel?

No matter how good the relationship between a couple is, what words should they not say when they quarrel? 1. I was really blind before I could marry you.

When the two people signed the marriage contract, they were willing to do so. In today's society, there is no extravagant demand or forced sale. What matters is that you and I are together. In this case, the partner a woman chooses must be satisfactory to her, because she is unlikely to trust a man who she does not like or appreciate for the rest of her life. With the previous intimacy, it is difficult for a woman to say, "I really had to be blind to marry you when I had a quarrel." The woman's implication was that she regretted marrying him. In fact, the woman's words were just words.

I have actually interviewed some women who have said this. They have no regrets. Even though they and their husbands endured hardships and never had a good life, they still did not regret marrying him. It's just that sometimes when the mentality takes over, women can't control their emotions, and they will say everything without thinking, without taking into account how hurtful these words are. Men are all about saving face. Since you are so influential in a woman's heart, how can you be so disappointed and disappointed? 2. Look at so-and-so, he is much stronger than you, but you are really weak and incompetent.

Men also don’t like women to compare themselves with other men, which especially damages a man’s self-esteem. I believe that every man is willing to fight for his loved ones after getting married, so that his wife, children, and parents can live a good life. However, every man's abilities, opportunities, luck and talents are different. There is such a big difference between different types of men.

Women do not need to compare their men with other men. There is no comparability between them. You only see the bright side of the other person, but you know what he is really like. If you want to inspire your husband to fight hard, women cannot use denigration, but should choose praise, appreciation and admiration. In addition, women also need to see the advantages and strengths of men. If he does not have these things, why did you marry him in the first place. No matter how much money a man earns, as long as he makes every effort, there is nothing wrong with a woman. 3. Why is your mother like this?

Most men understand that it is particularly difficult to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. They all know that they are placed between two women with double-sided tape. Men also admit that it is often their mother who is at fault. However, she is a mother and an elderly person, so how can she express rebuke and criticism? Even if it is his mother's fault, a man still can't bear his wife's rebuke, and he can't help but argue, and he may also say uglier words. The most stupid woman is to gossip about her mother-in-law in front of her husband. This sentence is always true.

The mother-in-law and her husband have a biological relationship. If you gossip about your mother, she will stand by you. Even if I am right about everything, I have to put it another way before a man can accept it. There is a question that is very stupid and very specific. A woman asks a man, "Between me and your mother, you can only choose one. Who can you choose?" The woman who asks this question is convinced that the man will find her. In fact, he It's because you overestimate your position in a man's mind. More than 90% of men will only choose their own mothers.