To be a man, you should learn to speak tactfully.

A euphemistic way of doing things: first, learn to improvise; second, you must see who the other person is and what to say when you speak or do things; In addition, we should be prepared when dealing with it.

There are all kinds of people in society. If there are good people, there must be bad people. Where there is a gentleman, there is a villain. As the saying goes, you can't hurt others or stop others, even if it's only for yourself. It is absolutely necessary to be tactful without being assassinated. Don't be too honest, be tactful, not to teach you to learn bad things, but to teach the world the flexibility and skills to interact with people.

Here are some suggestions to make you generous and smooth:

1. Kindness and honesty are ok, but don't be careless and unprepared on any key issues.

2. When we talk and do things, we must look at who the other party is and what we say to whom.

3. Those who are invisible in emotions are often deep-seated and more scheming, so be prepared when dealing with them.

Talk to everyone, but don't take everything to heart. This is not flashy, but cautious.

5. Honest people grasp a principle of interpersonal communication: honesty without stupidity, honesty without naivety. What I say must be true and what I say must be measured. I can make an appointment. There is a thin line between honesty and fools, so we can be honest in the process of interacting with others, but we must never be fools. We must grasp the scale ourselves.