What if I have a father who is idle at home and doesn't go to work?

Comfort your mother more, because she is under the greatest pressure in your family. You must learn to take responsibility. You have grown up, help your mother share more. Now that it has happened, don't complain. Communicate with your father more, tell him your troubles and worries, and impress him with your grievances. If he is still at home, you can talk to your relatives and ask them to persuade your father.