Usually, I am so timid that I dare not speak even if I raise my hand in class. How do you help your child overcome his timidity?

Every child has a different personality. Some children are bold and adventurous, while others are timid and shy. What parents need to do is to accept their children's natural disposition, help and guide them to find a survival mode suitable for their own personality, try their best to improve on the basis of acceptance, and help them adapt to the requirements of society.

How to help children overcome timidity?

First, let children have more contact with people.

As we all know, to overcome timidity, we should let our children have more contact with others. Only when you have contact with others, will you know how to contact others, how to contact others, and in the process of contact with others, will you know how to contact others, in order to gain their goodwill or how to contact others.

In the process of contact with others, children can strengthen their communication skills, so that they are no longer timid, because they will contact many different people, face many different people, and know what kind of people to communicate with and how to use them in their later lives. Only in the process of interacting with others can children change their personality and make themselves cheerful and optimistic.

Second, encourage children more.

All children want to be affirmed by others and encouraged by their parents or teachers. When he has difficulty communicating with others, when children are timid and afraid to communicate with others, parents and teachers need to play a role.

At this time, parents can boldly encourage their children to have more contact with others and let them know that it is beneficial to communicate with others. We believe in him, and we believe that he can communicate well with others. We should also encourage him appropriately and tell him that he is really great when he communicates with others. In fact, some things are to take the first step, and then we can bravely go on. After taking the first step, there will be many more.

Third, let go of tempering children.

I believe we will always hear a lot of such words around us. You're too young to do well, that's all. Because in the eyes of parents, we will always be children. Therefore, parents are uneasy about everything their children do, but this is wrong.

In this way, children have been growing up under the protection of their parents, and they will feel that they can't do anything well, which will produce such a mentality. At this time, parents need to let go to temper their children. Only when we let go of our children, have confidence in them and trust them, will they believe in themselves and feel that they can do well.

Fourth, take children to nature.

Children like to be close to nature. When we adults take our children to nature, they will relax, feel happy and be more willing to communicate with others. Communication can help children overcome their timidity.

Fifth, spend more time with your children.

When children feel fear inside, if parents perfunctory, it will only make the situation worse. In the process of children's growth, it is very important for parents to accompany them. Parents are advised to spend more time with their children, care more about their children and reduce their fears.

The child's timid performance:

1. Fear of the dark

When the surrounding environment suddenly darkens or comes to a dimly lit room together, timid children may be afraid to shrink back. They don't want to enter the black world, they just want to wait outside. If someone forced him, would he resist? He is also particularly afraid of the dark at night and needs to drink with him to fall asleep. Children become not independent enough, because they are afraid of the dark, become particularly timid and like to escape.

2. Dare not refuse

When others make unreasonable demands on him, he will not refuse, because he feels that if he refuses others, others will resent him or pose a threat to him. So he dare not refuse others, and always wronged himself. Usually in this case, children's confidence in doing things is also insufficient. Everyone can make demands on him. However, he can't resist, he must follow the principles of others. In the long run, the pressure on children will be too great.

3. Fear of strangeness

Timid children are naturally sensitive and have relatively weak adaptability to strangers or unfamiliar environments. Some children may have adapted to the new environment after walking, while those timid children may rely on their mothers. Even if the noise is too loud, they will be afraid to hide behind others and act very fragile.

4. Fear of consequences

Timid children are afraid of the consequences because of their poor psychological endurance. Sometimes when you make a mistake, you become very scared. They will resist the demands of others, and sometimes even walk away directly, which is not conducive to their future mental growth.