How to understand that like is presumptuous and love is restrained?

liking is presumptuous, so presumptuous that you can do anything for her as long as you can. So presumptuous that you can do nothing and think about her all the time. You are so presumptuous that you can throw everything at hand in order to help her or make her happy. You're so presumptuous that you think you have her and the whole world. I'm so presumptuous that I pay attention to everything about her every day. I talk about Weibo, my signature circle of friends, and I've rummaged through the chat records. Actually, it's not. Don't use impudence as a commendatory term. This word was created because it can express a bad and unacceptable thing, and it is a derogatory term. You like her, you are presumptuous, don't think that you will be moved. Long-term licentiousness will make you lost and make you more confused, not to mention people don't like you. Being presumptuous may be touching, but it is actually not responsible for your own future. To put it bluntly, it is a special escape. Love is restraint, and restraint is a kind of cultivation. Loving her doesn't mean that she will accompany you when you feel lonely. You are you, she is her, and she doesn't like you very much. She has her life. If she is willing to talk to you, chat with you, share with you and play with you, then listen to her, share with her and play with her. She is sick, insomnia and unhappy. You can care about her or give her a gift, but don't impose anything on her or force her to do something for you. If she feels tired of communicating with you, then you should talk less and contact her less. When you are bored, you must never be so bored that you want to chat with her and play with her all day long to meet your psychological needs. Although love is blind, it is not selfish, not taking, not to get psychological satisfaction from her. An interesting person doesn't want to chat with a boring person, what's more, you steal emotions to meet your psychological needs. Love is a very sunny and positive word, so if you love her, it should also be a positive thing, something that excites you and makes you work hard, instead of filling your inner emptiness, not making you bored to the point where you are full of her, and the whole world is her, not making you bored to see her every day. If that's the case, it's really a fool of love. It is meaningless to be a fool. She won't like a fool because she is not stupid. When your heart is rich and strong enough, you will find that a greeting or concern you give her will really make both sides feel comfortable. You know best what you feel, what you feel when you like her, and what you feel when you love her. Blindly chatting and texting is meaningless. Care or exhortation can only be regarded as nagging. Out of sincere concern, I hope she will be happy and smile from the heart, not to avoid embarrassment. You have to constantly improve yourself, have your own goals and pursuits, and constantly improve yourself from the inside out. This is not a task, nor for her, but for yourself. Everyone wants to contact and communicate with a talented, interesting and clean person. On the contrary, who likes to chat with a guy who is boring all day? However, although love is restraint, after all, love is a matter of two people, but now it's just that you love her and she doesn't like you. Maybe sometimes she needs to rely on you occasionally, or she needs you when her heart is weak, but it's not love or love. Hehe said so much, to be honest, from my current heart, after all, my heart is not very mature, so if she is willing to let you be presumptuous, I think I will still choose to be a fool. However, she is a rational person, so I can't be a fool. When I like her, I will feel lonely and disappointed when I walk alone on the road. When I love her, I will feel warm when I walk alone and think about her (I will feel lonely, but the degree is different). This is my own experience and is for reference only.