Radical cure: people should control their own desires, not be controlled by them.

1, respect the gentleman to show virtue, and fear the villain to be incompetent. The field is wide and wide, so that the back three points are safe. If you want to make progress, you need to think backwards. If you start, you should consider putting it down first. If you are proud, you shouldn't go back. Take more steps in everything.

2. Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if it is wrong, don't be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. Looking back, right or wrong doesn't matter.

3. Rich and unassuming, azaleas bloom all over the mountain. If you are in adversity, don't give up. Like the defeated Magnolia, she waved to the world again in the next spring.

People always persuade others like smart people and torture themselves like fools. Finally, you have to admit that you are still a stranger.

There is no shortcut to live the life you want. Even if you work hard and get nothing, you can't give up on yourself. As long as it gets better every day, you can see better scenery.

What women need is a clean appearance, because when they are old, whether wrinkles reveal wisdom or vulgarity is what you have to do now.

7. Who is a passer-by in life? There are always some people passing by, leaving some traces, some afterglow, some sadness and some feelings in life.

8, you can do whatever you want, but please my heart. It is not difficult to do it well the first time, but it is difficult to do it well every time. Back to the sun, a shadow; Facing the sun, the sun is shining.

9. When you have nothing, it is God who takes out the garbage for you and lets you put the most useful things in.

10, people should control their desires and not be controlled by desires. It is human instinct to pursue comfort and enjoyment, but we should also be temperate. The reason why we live tired is often because we mistake our desires for our needs, making ourselves exhausted and getting deeper and deeper.

Talk about desire

Talk about desire

1. I recently read the guidance article on parenting education, and shared a lot of experience and spit. In addition, some senior mothers who have already walked on the road of child-rearing suddenly found that this is an area that is very easy for parents to fall into. Some people actually have expectations, desires and complex human nature in their parenting concepts. Some experts' methods can only be heard and appreciated as fists and feet. Only by improving the internal strength of life can we manage our family well.

When life is boring, there is always an idea that it is better to start over after death. Maybe one day, when I have enough money to satisfy my desire, I will definitely test my ideas on the way to travel.

There is an angel in everyone's heart and a devil in everyone's heart. In real life, under certain circumstances, whether a person is an angel or a devil depends on his own choice. If the idea of becoming an angel is strong, people are angels. If the desire to be a demon is strong, people are demons. People can't be angels forever, and people can't be demons forever. It's just that some people spend more time as angels, while others spend more time as demons.

4, no desire, no interest, even don't want to eat rice.

Everyone is looking for happiness, but what is happiness? It is a contented state of mind, sometimes it is related to money, and sometimes it has nothing to do with money. Even if it is related to money, psychologists have found that money only plays a role of 20% among various factors that affect happiness. So the root of happiness is not how much money you have, but how much desire you have reduced.

6. The earliest source of everything in the universe is the struggle for unity and division caused by desire. Where there is oppression, there is resistance. Where there is killing, there is revenge. There is a new vicious circle when the world goes backwards. I hope more people can realize that only love can make everything harmonious.

7. Desire, the fish I want; Look forward to your son's success. Desire, demand.

8. Desire for survival, longing for the future and an unyielding heart.

9. Life is not bitter. The bitter thing is that there are too many desires and the body and mind are not tired. Tired is to bear too much; No matter how bitter it is, you should recite it into a leisurely memory with today's smile; No matter how tired you are, you should use your present forgetfulness to cross the world of mortals and calm your heart. Know a person by fate, understand a person by patience, conquer a person by wisdom, and get along well with a person by tolerance.

10, I really hope that life is so unemotional, and I don't have too much desire to go on, to pursue what I like or to try to do something meaningful, but the reality is always so contradictory!

1 1, secular love will quickly show weakness after courage caused by desire. It needs rewards and self-satisfaction. Therefore, most earthly feelings are neither strong nor noble nor bright. Just trying to testify for myself.

12, why are we unhappy? I think we always want to control things we can't control, such as our lives, property, other people's ideas, reputation, status, and those who love us don't change their minds! Wait, we all want to control what we can't control. We really can't control it. We can. We can control our negative emotions and desires all the time, but we really can't, so we will continue to suffer.

13, the days are still the same, over and over again. I don't want to talk more and more, live in my own world, and my contact with the outside world is limited to work and perfunctory. No matter how big the worries are, they are hidden by themselves, and there is no desire to talk. It seems that everything that can't be put down can be put down slowly, and I don't care. I can't get rid of it. If it doesn't belong to me, it's useless to stay. Let nature take its course, I'm still here!

14, man is the body of desire, whether mentally or materially, it can be said that spiritual excessive desire is to meet material needs, and material excessive desire is to meet spiritual needs. Religious worship of the Pope and secular pursuit of material are both individual dependence on the outside world, a loss of self-lost, and it is dangerous to pursue desire without internal culture. This world has always been a battle of lust, and there is no war of moderation and moderation.

15, successfully crossed the fire phoenix line, mainly on foot. Aurora is still a longing for the Mohe River in MacLehose Trail.

16, the ideal living condition is actually like this, struggling in a big city and living in a small city. Don't struggle until your eyes are dim. You should know that enough is enough, status, money and desire will never end, but life should be experienced wholeheartedly at the right time, because life is only once, so don't waste it.

17, all thoughts start from the heart, and everything is made by the heart. Don't be tempted if you don't want to experience so many changes and encounters. If you have no desire in your heart, you have nothing to fear, and no one can change you.

18, no pains, no gains. Desire, self-discipline, motivation, concentration.

19, life is too realistic, everything is so natural, many things have passed, but the mood has not been forgotten, life must be happy, life can not live without desire, life is always changing, the environment is always unpredictable, and in real life, all kinds of emergencies are always endless. Heart, should be a tree, standing silently, can not only accept the sunshine, but also endure the wind and rain.

20. The star's popularity should be in direct proportion to the star's desire.

2 1, think about it, because we are lazy, we always think that we have plenty of time to do anything, so that so many plans, trips, love and exploration of life have not been implemented! When the disaster comes, we do nothing, and we will find ourselves back in the ordinary life day after day, and our desire for life will be exhausted.

22. Greedy people are always worried, and contented people are always happy. If life is a grain of sand, desire is a bottomless pit; If life is a drop of water, desire is a rolling river. Short life, who can win the race with infinite desire? The desire for life is hard to get, but it is hard to let go. Greedy people fall into it again and again, and contented people take it away when they are ready. It is better to look down on the storm, be predestined friends, and cherish yourself; If there is no chance to go, let it go safely.

23. People's desires should not be too strong, and the requirements of life should not be too high. I am very satisfied with my current working condition. Do accounts in the office every day, do shipping, and do WeChat business in my spare time. I take turns doing two jobs and take care of the baby every night. Although very tired, but very full. People, be happy every day.

24. Language is really a skill. Comfortable language makes people feel comfortable. On the contrary, it has nothing to do with good or bad. Self-conscious language will suddenly make you lose the desire to continue talking.

25. As a good moral character, the doctrine of the mean is first manifested in the choice of interests. Since ancient times, China has attached importance to the distinction between justice and benefit, and emphasized that people should take morality as the guidance and criterion and make correct choices when facing interests. This is what sages often say: seeing right is right, taking right, and not taking wrong. If you think about it, you will control the interests. Moderation is followed by a reasonable adjustment of desire.

26. Big cities and small cities are just mirror images that emerge when they are dissatisfied with themselves. In fact, people in big cities generally can't go back to small cities. No matter how enthusiastic people are. People in small cities can't go back to the countryside. No matter how attractive the wind and light are there. People are embedded in the environment, swallowed up by the environment, think in the direction of the environment, and release their desires in a way that the environment allows. For better or worse, I can't go back anyway.

27. Calm down. Remember to reduce your desires and face life without being afraid of gossip.

28. You can't have it with a smile, but you can give it up with a smile. The happiness of life needs a normal heart to bear. Giving up properly is an elegant turn of life. The reason why people suffer is often because they have too much desire and too little satisfaction. The practice of life, to a great extent, is the control of desire.

29. When I was on the subway, the ideas of three novels lingered in my mind. How to start, how to spread, how to portray characters, how to generate details. Everything is recorded very familiar, just as you have seen the words appearing on the document. Suddenly, I feel very tired. These are all so familiar that I can write them easily. There is nothing new waiting for me. I suddenly don't want to write.

30. Feeling uneasy about the future and full of doubts about the past; I don't want to give up the present and offend the future. Always want to find a way of life once and for all. But society is changing rapidly, and life is short. Turning around is just turning around in discipline and desire.

3 1, learn to be quiet, immerse yourself in your heart, and gradually reduce your desire for things; Learn to return to zero forever and take every day as a new starting point. When you are upset, have a cup of tea, play a soothing and soft music, close your eyes, recall the people and things around you, and slowly sort out the new future.

32. People will be vain, feel inferior and have desires. Restrain, suppress, don't let yourself have too much desire for material things, and don't envy others. Only when you have tasted pain will you know what equality is.

33. Indulge your desires is the greatest evil; Talking about other people's privacy is the greatest sin; Not knowing your mistakes is the greatest pain. Aristotle

To tell you the truth, I feel alive recently. There are more and more things you want to do and can do, more energy and courage, but less desire. When I wake up every morning, my heart is full of joy. This is unprecedented in the past twenty years, or a gift of fate. This state is precious, and we should try to keep it longer.

35. May years temper my full soul and thin desire.

36. Now I understand that sentence, when people's ability can't satisfy their desires, you will suffer, so you should extinguish your desires.

37. I think of skipping classes to play the piano in the rehearsal room when I was studying, and now I have the desire to skip classes and go home to play the piano at work. In fact, breaking the routine and doing what you like will work harder and do better, but you should be prepared to pay the due price.

38. I was sick and began to hate eating. I have lost my appetite. I'm hungry and don't want to eat. It's tempting to see these pictures, but I have no desire to eat. Just starve to death

39. Melancholy is due to incompetence, annoyance is due to unsatisfied desires, and grumpiness is a sign of cowardice.

40. Russell lacks the desire to take the initiative. Such a defender is completely unworkable now, and there is not even a minimum pick-and-roll jumper. What the hell?

The desire to talk about life

The desire to talk about life

First, you spend most of your life switching back and forth between the desire you want and the boredom you get, and your life is over!

Second, I suddenly began to miss someone, that familiar name. Once upon a time, I wanted to buy some delicious food for my grandmother and give her a red envelope for the New Year, but in the end I failed to realize this wish. The meaning of life is not how much money you can earn and how many houses you have, but whether you can give something to others, whether it is spiritual or material! Material will amplify a person's desire, but spirit and quality can be passed on!

I just got off the phone with my mother. Ma Ma said that there was a sick car in front of my brother's school in the morning, which deliberately hit people, killing three people and injuring five others. Now he is investigating, which scares me to tell Ma Ma again and again that he must pick up my brother. Even I want to ask for leave for my brother. For the first time in my life, I have such a strong desire to go home.

Only those who know how to control their desires can enjoy the real pleasure of life, only those who know how to ignore can enjoy the harmony between the left and the right, and only those who know how to let go of themselves can enjoy the calmness of life.

Fifth, the happiness of life needs a normal heart to carry. The reason why people suffer is often because they have too much desire and too little satisfaction. Life practice, to a great extent, is the control of desire. Everyone will have desires, but the desire beyond their capacity will only make them fall into a quagmire of pain. Learning to be content is to master the key to happiness.

6. If life is a grain of sand, desire is a bottomless pit; If life is a drop of water, desire is a rolling river. Short life, who can win the race with infinite desire? The desire for life is hard to get, but it is hard to let go. Greedy people will get stuck in it, and contented people will take what they can. People who are predestined friends cherish themselves; If there is no chance to go, let it go safely. Tolerance is great, but no desire is just.

Seven, the journey of life, do what makes you happy, life is not bitter, what is bitter is too much desire; Life is limited, and everything you get will be lost. As long as you cherish it with your heart, you don't have to care too much about losing it.

Eight, when I shit, I think about life, and I lose my original impulse more and more. Recently, I feel uninterested in many things, including my favorite food. Now I have no appetite for anything, and I have no desire to brush the e-commerce website to buy things. 1/4 Life crisis, looking forward to the final realization of planA.

Nine, to be successful, to look good, to be decent, to be gentle, to be popular, to find that your goal is to live a perfect model. I can't do it. I'm too tired. Why do people have so many desires in their lives? Just be simple and happy. So I need to cultivate my mind first.

Ten, life without desire, no harm, contentment, this is happiness!

Eleven, the so-called brilliant life, but is a prisoner of desire. Schopenhauer

Life always seems to start again and again. After all these desires have faded, it seems that all they want is humanity, work, dance, and what they really cherish, family and righteousness.

Thirteen, the real busy is not busy, but busy; Real fatigue is not physical fatigue, but mental fatigue. People live a lifetime, and fatigue is inevitable. When you feel busy and tired, it is either because of the loss of value or because of too much desire. Life has a direction, and with a reason to work hard, the heart is stable; Less care, more tolerance, knowing satisfaction, the heart will be idle. Let nature take its course, let nature take its course, let nature take its course, and life will be more perfect.

Fourteen. If one day you find that all your previous efforts have been in vain, and you can't get the reward you deserve, while others easily get what you can't get through your efforts, what would you think? When you start to grow up and doubt the world and life, can you balance the desires in your heart and tell yourself that if you get it, you will lose it, but you will still be crazy at night, which is unfair. How can you wake up like this? Why don't you have a drink and have a good sleep?

15. The greatest wealth in life lies not in how much you have, but in controlling your desires. If you are not satisfied with everything you have, you will not be happy even if you have the whole world. The so-called contentment is to know how to choose, know how to give up, and know how to stop. Contentment is a quiet and peaceful state, and Changle is an optimistic and open-minded attitude towards life.

Sixteen, we are careful on the road of life, lest a person be entangled in desire and no longer have a loop; He beckons to you with the demons of Sin City, lures you to his side, lures your mind and even your soul to fall, and then you will never turn over again.

What really puzzles you is not your life, but your desire.

18. Schopenhauer said that when people's desires are not realized, you will suffer. Once their desires are realized, you will become bored again. Life is constantly wandering between pain and boredom. During the day, your time is the boss's, and after work, your time is the child's, 24 hours. How much time did you leave for yourself? Ok, go to bed early tonight! !

Nineteen, to experience ups and downs of the plot, but also to enrich life, have great ambitions and desires.

Twenty, too much desire will become a burden. The less desire, the richer life. Greed is the truest poverty.

21. Life is a mass of desires. Desire is painful if it is not satisfied, and boring if it is satisfied. On the other hand, life swings in pain and boredom. Happiness is only a temporary cessation of desire. There are troubles every day, and there is nothing wrong with not answering. Don't forget people's good, don't miss them, don't think about their mistakes, and don't care about their grievances.

Twenty-three, unless you have experienced the struggle of sadness and fear, endured the era that shattered your dreams, been hurt by strong desires, and exhausted by conflicts, son, you have never really lived. This is life.

Twenty-four, everyone's heart, there are bitter, depressed and silent, boring and persistent, because no one explains. In everyone's heart, there are some experiences, to be tempered, to bear setbacks, because of growth. Don't talk nonsense if you don't understand. I won't say much if I know. When you are upset, speak slowly. Don't say anything if you have nothing to say. The road to practice is like a bitter medicine, which can only cure the diseases of life if you take it. There are many disadvantages in life: endless desire, lingering concern, inexplicable loneliness and unspeakable difficulties. Life is like the sea, and tolerance is a boat. I can't hear right and wrong in my ears, I can't see the fight in my eyes, and I can't say anything hurtful in my mouth. What is music? I have experienced many ups and downs, but I have not been defeated by difficulties; I felt a lot of sadness, but I didn't immerse myself in it. And every time after the difficulties, more and more strong; After every pain, I understand the meaning of love more and more. The mind is getting softer and softer; Mind, more and more broad.

Twenty-five, I almost ran all over Taipei and broke my leg, but I didn't buy the eye shadow I wanted. I want to sit on the floor of the mall and cry. There are always so many moments in life that make people collapse. I want to lose my life. More money and less money. Let's talk about a love. Maybe I can bring my boyfriend's neck and a snot back to life.

26. It is normal to have regrets. Life without regrets is a muddled life. Without regret, there is no joy in life, and without regret, there is no happiness in life. The greater the desire, the more regrets, the smaller the desire, the less regrets.

Twenty-seven, life is a group of desires, when the desires are not satisfied, it is painful, when the desires are satisfied, it is boring, and life lingers in pain and boredom. I want to stay in Macau this week, so I can't buy too much.

Twenty-eight, it is always good to be older, and you can understand the hardships of others' lives and the choices of some people more and more. I am no longer hysterical about what I can't get, and I am no longer entangled in people who have little to do with my real life. Good people and bad people have learned to be responsible for themselves, seen the cruelty of life and strengthened their hearts. With a little longing and longing when I was young, I bravely rushed forward and lived the rest of my life.

29. Life is actually a struggle between ignorance and awakening, a struggle between fear and desire. Sadly, for many people, leaving school is the end of learning, not the beginning.

Thirty, there are many things in life that can't be done, so you need patience; There are many wishes in life that cannot be realized, so patience is needed; There are many hardships in life that cannot be avoided, so patience is needed; There are many pains in life that you can't let go, so you need patience. It is calm when forbearing movies, and forbearing at this moment is for the next more perfect outbreak.

3 1. Desire is a black hole full of discontent, and greed is the root of all evils and all kinds of pains in life. The poor have the desires of the poor, and the rich have the desires of the rich. Some people can resist the temptation of money, but they may not be able to resist the temptation of beauty. Some people can resist the temptation of money and beauty, but not necessarily the temptation of power. There will always be something they can't bear to let go of. This is a human weakness, but also a human richness.

Thirty-two, read more historical story books, see more human desires, helplessness and sadness, ups and downs in life are not easy, the balance of Yin and Yang changes, understand others more, and liberate yourself more. Write the past on paper and turn over a new page tomorrow. Alive, with sound limbs, what else can't be faced with? Buddhist language: Everyone is predestined. Similarly: when something happens or destiny takes a hand. The mind is fixed and the Tao is natural; If you are broad-minded, you will be big; When you are healthy, you are detached.

Thirty-three, we are still young, and the dream life is a ups and downs, bustling daily life. We need a lot of money, surrounded by close friends, a big house with French windows, a glass of wine for the long night, someone to miss when we are drunk and sleepy, and a huge bathtub to wake up with the people we love. To experience the ups and downs of the plot, but also to have a full life, lofty aspirations and desires.

A famous saying of restraining desire

1. The more opportunities you have to be talked about, the more you want to be talked about. Bertrand Russell

2. Wealth is like sea water. The more you drink, the more thirsty you are. Fame is actually the same. -Schopenhauer

3. Desire is the root of human suffering. It is true that desire can make people happy; But behind this joy and happiness is suffering, and joy is sad; After all desires are realized, disaster is inevitable. -Yusuf Sibai

4, want to clear yourself. -Cheng Hao, an educator in the Song Dynasty

5. There is less desire to be suicidal. —— Huang Zongxi

6, longing, the horse chasing disaster. -Liu Xiang

7. If an animal needs something, it knows the degree and quantity of it, but humans don't. -democritus, the desire for fame is far greater than the desire for virtue, because fame is a reward for beauty. Without it, who will embrace virtue? -Yu Weina

8. Passion is like charcoal fire, it must be cooled, otherwise, the fire will scorch the heart. -Shakespeare

9. Sunflowers only bloom in the sun, and cordate telosma only blooms in the moonlight. People who can suppress their lust will not cuddle other people's wives. -India

10, men are easily fooled as long as they satisfy their pride and desire by flattery; Artists with rich imagination are more likely to be deceived. -romain rolland

1 1, man is an unknown enemy. -Turkey

12, nourishing the heart is not good at lust. He is also a man with few desires, although there are those that don't exist, he is a widow; He is also a man with many desires, although he is a widow. -Mencius

13, everyone wants knowledge, but no one is willing to pay the price. -Yu Weina

14, the desire for knowledge is like the pursuit of wealth. The more you pursue, the stronger your desire will be. Stern

15, the desire for power is one of the most notorious desires. Tacitus

16, even the wise, it is difficult to abandon the weakness of pursuing fame and fortune. Tacitus

17, pursuing fame and profit is almost synonymous with advocating Excellence. -Herzlitt

There are two tragedies in life. One is that your desire is not satisfied, and the other is that your desire is satisfied. -Bernard Shaw

19, three quarters of the requirements in the world are unrealistic, and they are all based on fantasy, idealism, hope and emotion. -Ruskin

20. When you are controlled by desire, you are insignificant; When motivated by enthusiasm, you are great. James allen

2 1, people often hear such a sentence: "desire destroyed him." However, this is often wrong. It is not desire that destroys people, but incompetence, laziness or confusion. -gu

22. There is always one heart in the world looking forward to and calling for another. Cervantes

23. People can't set a time for lust. -romain rolland

24. The greatest enemy is your own desire. -Iran

25. On the edge of satiety and boredom, desire is still limited. Jean Rostand

26, limited ability, infinite desire for the sea: man is a god who fell into the mortal world, and he has not forgotten everything in the kingdom of heaven. -Lamartin

27. If people can control their desires and live a life without asking for anything; Then, he mastered his own life and his own destiny. -Yusuf Sibai

Fame tastes so sweet that we love everything related to it, even death. pascal

29. The desire for fame and fortune is an unreasonable desire of human beings; Even philosophers themselves seem extremely reluctant to abandon the weakness of pursuing fame and fortune. -Montaigne

30, more desire to lose righteousness, more sorrow and wisdom. -Liu An

3 1, nothing is more selfish than fame and fortune. Working for others is just for your reputation. -Lando

Self-control is the instinct of the strongest. -Bernard Shaw

The thirst for knowledge is the natural intention of human beings, and anyone with a sound mind will acquire knowledge by any means. -Stop Johnson.

The giants of wealth and fame have fallen before our eyes, but they can't change our ambitions. -Wovenag

35. The essence of saving trouble is abstinence. -Liu An

36. People who have desires but have no actions can only produce pestilence. Blake

37, the pleasure of indulgence, sadness. -Qing Dynasty educator Shen Juyun's "Redundancy of West Rock"

38. Once a person becomes a slave to desire, he will never be free. -(Thailand) Cha Gajdi

39. Faster than the clouds. -"Yan Danzi"