Dad is having an affair. What about the children?

Talking about being a child should

1. From the point of filial piety, no matter how wrong parents are, children have no right to blame their parents (I expect this article may be sprayed by readers).

2. As a child, it is not appropriate to judge right or wrong from any standpoint.

3. Respect the choice of both parents, and don't make peace or divorce.

4. Don't be influenced by your father's infidelity. What you should do at this time is to comfort your mother and give her a strong confidence: even if you divorce, you will lose your husband and me!

5. Accept this fact and don't take it as a shadow.

6. The most important one: There is no difference between a man cheating once and countless times.

In the family, the daughter is a very intimate role

She can empathize with her mother because she is a woman. "But, because I am a daughter, what I can say is limited, but I can feel and understand your pain, and I will always support and accompany you. But it is difficult to become a comrade-in-arms and fight against dad. In that case, the relationship of this family may be even more irreparable. "

for dad, "I am your daughter. What can I say as a daughter? What can I do? " As long as we firmly keep our duties as daughters, we will not be kidnapped by what happened between our parents. You will see very clearly that the injury belongs only to the previous generation. In the face of their own sexual relations, they will not be affected by any past injuries and run their own marriage completely.