Daughters are born to earn money to support their families.

In order to make their children better, many families let their children participate in various training courses from an early age. Dance, art, Lego, etc. ? I believe there will be many such parents around you. ?

But this is not the requirement of all parents.

Wang Shuo made a very domineering remark.

Talking about the expectations of his daughter, he said, what do I want her to do? I don't want anything from her. I hope she is happy, but I don't want her to succeed. I hate this word. What success is, isn't it just making some money?

Why do you say such awesome things?

First, Wang Shuo succeeded.

As a well-known writer, he has earned enough money, resources and contacts. Even if his daughter is not successful, what should he do with his father around? The daughter just needs to do what she likes. Because I can't afford to lose.

So as a parent, can you change your requirements for your children a little and become your own requirements? If you are the solid backing of your children, what's the harm if they don't study badly, even if they are not so good and can't earn so much money?

And many parents, in line with the requirements of being good to their children, let their children choose their specialties according to their own interests (please, parents' childhood has passed and they want to learn to register), and the result will inevitably be resisted by their children.

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Let children grow up faster and better, and words and deeds are the best education. If you want your child to love reading, from now on, put down your mobile phone and watch it with your child. If you want children to love painting, you can draw an interesting picture with them instead of giving them a stick figure to doodle, which is not only boring but also destroys their imagination.

Many parents around me are trying to make their children try, try and find their own interests, and don't live for life when they grow up. Resign decisively in the face of a job you don't like, and you won't hesitate because you can't pay the rent next month. When faced with a good opportunity, you won't miss it because you have no money. The most painful thing in life is not that you dare not try, but that you dare not try without money.

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Some people say, I don't want to succeed, I just want to live a simple life. What should I do?

It doesn't matter, as long as you do it, don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. If you can't see other children's good grades, you will point fingers at your own children. If you can't see other people's children's paintings and pianos, you will dislike your own children. This one won't, and neither will that one.

Simply put, if you don't succeed, don't have too many illusions about "expecting your child to succeed". Dare not pursue dreams, be confused, break pots and fall, and pin all my hopes on children. There is quite a feeling that I don't fly, I laid an egg and let the egg fly.

If someone in a family must succeed, why can't it be parents? Parents are the best role models for children. Parents do well, and children will not get worse under the influence of a good family atmosphere. In their limited childhood, we should try to make them happy and study according to their own interests.