Can you accept the cooling-off period for divorce promulgated by the Civil Code?

After the college entrance examination this year, many parents of college entrance examination candidates chose to divorce in the Civil Affairs Bureau. Although China introduced a cooling-off period for divorce, it did not stop the pace of divorce.

Personally, I think the cooling-off period of divorce is acceptable, but it is not perfect. Instead of setting a cooling-off period for divorce, it is better to set a cooling-off period for marriage. A high-quality marriage can reduce the number of divorces.

Advantages and disadvantages of divorce cooling-off period. The cooling-off period of divorce in China is one month, starting from 20211. When the husband and wife agreed to divorce, the government forced them to reconsider for 30 days.

After the cooling-off period, if one of the spouses is unwilling to divorce or fails to apply for divorce again within the prescribed time, the divorce application shall be deemed invalid.

If the couple want to divorce again, they need to resubmit the application and wait another month. The cooling-off period of divorce has just been implemented, which has both advantages and disadvantages.

First of all, the advantages of the cooling-off period of divorce.

With the accelerated pace of life, there are more and more flash marriages and divorces. Setting a cooling-off period for divorce can give both husband and wife a chance to regret and reduce the situation of impulsive divorce.

In many divorce cases, there are indeed couples who divorce impulsively because they made the wrong decision in a rage. The cooling-off period of divorce is a buffer period, which gives couples enough time to reconsider.

Then, the disadvantages of the cooling-off period of divorce.

A couple can embark on the road of divorce, which may have been considered countless times. The extra cooling-off period of divorce is not helpful to a really broken marriage.

Just like parents who choose to divorce after the college entrance examination, they have been forbearing this marriage for their children. But the victims of unfortunate marriage also include children, and parents quarreling all day has a bad influence on children.

The cooling-off period of divorce is not suitable for all families. Some couples finally agreed to divorce under the threat of domestic violence, but they had to wait for a month. If the other party reneges, the victim will continue to endure domestic violence.

Although domestic violence can go through legal procedures, it will take a long time to appeal. What should I do if the violent party is extreme and does something irreparable during the waiting period?

The attitude of netizens. After the cooling-off period of divorce appeared, many netizens expressed their opinions one after another. Some netizens can't accept this system, thinking that the new cooling-off period for divorce will increase the difficulty of divorce and make people reluctant to get married.

Some netizens also said that the cooling-off period of divorce seems redundant, and couples can remarry if they regret divorce. Between the cost of remarriage of more than ten yuan and a month's waiting for divorce, more people tend to remarry.

Some netizens said that it is too troublesome for couples in different places to handle divorce, which not only wastes time but also increases the workload of the Civil Affairs Bureau.

On the other hand, it can be seen that most netizens do not buy this system, and some netizens said that it is not perfect to simply set a cooling-off period for divorce. A special appraisal institution can be set up to help couples who really want to divorce get rid of it as soon as possible.

In fact, the cooling-off period of divorce is not unique to China. Other countries also have a cooling-off period for divorce, even more than one month. However, in order to improve this system, some countries have added appraisal institutions.

This institution will evaluate the relationship between husband and wife to see if it is necessary to continue. Individuals can accept the cooling-off period system of divorce, but whether it can be improved.

Divorce is better than setting a cooling-off period for marriage. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife can not be maintained by external coercion. Many couples are still as loving as ever to outsiders, but the real situation is only clear to them.

Some couples hold back their unhappy marriages for the sake of their children, but when the relationship between husband and wife breaks down, the family becomes an ice house and the husband and wife become enemies.

The real reason for the breakdown of husband and wife's feelings is not an impulsive divorce, but a feud between the two. Maybe there is no deep hatred between two people, but they will become enemies under the accumulated grievances.

When I got married, I did not hesitate to love. After getting married, I found that they were out of character. Many couples were defeated in the running-in period of husband and wife, and finally parted ways and became strangers.

Personally, I think we can set a cooling-off period for marriage, increase thinking time for marriage, and let couples understand the weight of marriage. If husband and wife can cherish each other, they will not hate each other.

Let couples know more about each other, so that they won't regret it after marriage. The newly added cooling-off period for divorce makes it even harder for people who are afraid of getting married.

Unhappy marriage will affect children's future. Children don't learn how to get along with the other half from their parents, and then they will continue their parents' mistakes like a vicious circle.

Therefore, divorce is better than setting a cooling-off period for marriage, so that couples can re-examine the meaning of marriage and reconsider whether the other party is worth entrusting.

That's it. For the cooling-off period of divorce, individuals can accept this system, but they feel it is not perfect. We can appropriately increase the number of institutions to identify the feelings of husband and wife and teach them how to get along.