It is very dangerous to get married because of the performance of couples.

1, the body is not close.

A female client once confided to me: married for 8 years, sexless for 5 years, in her early 30 s, but living a 60-year-old husband and wife life. Many times we lie in the same bed, preferring to brush our mobile phones back to back until the early hours of the morning, rather than have any skin relatives; Sometimes when you fall asleep and accidentally touch each other's body, the other party will be embarrassed for a long time. In the eyes of outsiders, we are a model couple of love and happiness. Only we know where there is happiness, just for children.

2. Language barrier

Unlike loving couples, there is usually no language communication between couples. You sit at the same table, but each eats his own meal; You are sitting in the same room, but you are looking at your mobile phone. The communication between you, don't say that there is no sweet talk, and you don't even bother to say 1 nonsense. All the things we can talk about are transactional, such as: bringing onions, buying garlic, picking up children, being out of breath, my mother coming, and the other party's response is: hmm, oh, ok.

3. Don't care about each other

Couples who live together are extremely indifferent to each other, and may even be worse than roommates. You are sick, he doesn't care, and he won't even pour you a cup of hot water. On your wedding anniversary, he didn't even bother to send flowers, let alone create other surprises. Many times you feel that this kind of marriage life is lonely and depressing, and that kind of despair makes you suffocate, but you can really let go of 100 unwilling people.