Let me talk to you.

It seems that the people below are very single-minded.

First of all, let's answer whether she likes you or not ... This may not be true, but it is very likely that she only regards you as a friend.

Why do you see it? First of all, you should make clear a few questions:

1, do you talk to her much in reality? Not that there are many practical problems to talk about, but that there are many face-to-face chats. If there are not many, I'm sorry that your relationship is not as deep as you think.

2. Does she have the same attitude towards others? As long as you are a little social, this question should not be difficult for you. If you have social problems, I suggest you talk to some boys who know her fairly well, and talk about girls' topics, such as asking which woman is like, and you can usually get the answer. Then, if she has the same attitude towards other people, it's a pity that you are not so special to her, but she regards you as a friend, which is very gratifying.

3. Did she talk to you about anything other than the competition? Occasionally, it is not in this range. If you talk about two or three topics outside the game for a long time, congratulations, she has a good relationship with you, and then you can go back and look at the whole chat result (pay attention to your performance, don't always look at other girls' records ...). If you do well, congratulations again, you may have won her trust.

So, to sum up, your deepest relationship with her is just a trustworthy friend.

On the other hand, do girls know that you like her? Answer: At least she knows that you speak highly of her! Girls' feelings are more delicate than boys', not to mention their favorite points. She can still see such obvious feelings.

Then look at yourself. Are you sure you really like her? Don't rush to answer, let you think about a few questions first:

1, how much do you know about her? As you said, you just talked recently. In fact, you only saw her social side. If one day, when you find that she has other bad shortcomings (such as hard, such as never using paper for large size, etc. ) Can you accept her? I'm sure you can accept it, because you won't always miss the girl who has a crush on you, will you? ...

2. Are you sure that your so-called feeling of liking her is not hunger, thirst or impulse? Of course, most of the things you like are impulsive, but imagine if other girls (such as the girls around you who have a good relationship with you) interact with you in this way, will you feel the same way? If there is, then your feelings are just good feelings, and even if you like it, it is just like being a friend.

How much are you willing to pay for her? Is this easy to think about? Even if she does nothing but play games, even if she chats with other men like this, will you still treat her like this?

If you find that you still like her, let me give you some advice:

1, don't listen to those people downstairs. Say what you love. Only diaosi can do such a terrible thing. You should try to deepen your relationship now. You know, confession in this degree of relationship will not only ruin your love, but also make you embarrassed to be friends. It is a lie to say that you are a good person and can still be friends. Ask a normal person casually, and you can continue to be friends after confession, without embarrassment or affectation. Confession is tantamount to tampering with relationships. Once the confession is made, it is impossible for the relationship to start again, either to improve or to deteriorate. You should keep that in mind.

2, gradually deepen feelings and learn to be tolerant. Step by step, so is the pursuit. Don't impose your feelings on others just because you like them, which is suspected of emotional kidnapping. Maintain this relationship first, then continue to deepen and occasionally discuss other problems in life. Invite her to dinner if you have nothing to do, make a little joke and make a bet, and try to make the atmosphere between you lively and happy. Then notice that you should enter her world more than pulling her into your own. For example, maybe you still like playing guitar, but it doesn't matter. You don't have to pull her to play the guitar. You can play it to her. She said she wanted to learn from you and then teach him. What you should do is, if she likes tailors, you can take the initiative to ask and hope that she can make gloves and scarves for you, but please don't take the part that you are not interested in as an interaction. For example, if you obviously hate cooking, there is no need for her to teach.

3. Generous but confident. If she has a good relationship with other boys, please speak up if she is jealous, but don't show your meanness. Generally speaking, it is more appropriate to say "Oh, I really envy that man and I want to be with you" in a teasing way, instead of keeping a black face (don't think it's easy to do, you'll understand later). If you have a competitor, it is both a challenge and an opportunity, because she may be taken away by others, but you can take this opportunity to show your love more boldly and even confess.

In short, you still have a long way to go, and it's not just love.