Drop your guard and you may get more.

For the sake of self-protection, it is necessary for everyone to be vigilant, but being too vigilant may cause obstacles to interpersonal communication. People who can't trust others will not only feel lonely in their own hearts, but also make people around them fantasize and unwilling to associate with them.

Trust is to open your heart and convey goodwill to others. Indeed, sometimes the result of doing so is that you can gain the trust of others and get the same response as we expect. Maybe your trust is the factor your opponent uses when he beats you.

We deny that we have suffered a lot because of trust, but at the same time we must realize the necessary conditions for a society to maintain the normal operation of social mechanisms. We are gregarious animals. Without the help of others, we can't stay in the crowd. Our life is a web of human nodes. In order to gain your own safety or temporary interests, you close the communication with others and cut off the connection between nodes. This kind of interpersonal relationship is just riddled with holes. How can a broken net be used for fishing? Although you have gained your own safety, it is only a temporary strength. You have lost a long life for this temporary success or failure. In fact, others are not as bad as you think. Only when you open your heart will you be willing to be honest with you. A person who doesn't trust others is not worthy of trust. In fact, this kind of psychology can be gradually weakened by sharing more with others. Although at first you may feel that your heart has been seen through, losing your hard shell and previous sense of security, in the end you will find that you get a harmonious living environment, and you can also get trust from others. Such happiness is a closed self.