Correctly establish the concept of family pension

Correctly establish the concept of family pension

Correctly establish the concept of family pension. With China entering an aging society, "providing for the aged" has become a common concern of the society and the public. From blindly worshipping the elderly to establishing love and understanding for the elderly on the basis of equality. Let's take a look at how to correctly establish the concept of family pension.

Correctly establish the concept of family support for the elderly 1 In the concept of family support for the elderly, from blindly worshiping and respecting the elderly to truly loving and understanding the elderly on the basis of equality.

In the form of family pension, there are many choices. Not all care is provided directly by relatives, but with the help of family and relatives, community service personnel, community volunteers and neighbors may be used to provide various services. From the way of providing for the aged, living with children is not necessarily the only choice. You can also choose to live apart, hire someone to provide for the aged, entrust the aged, and agree to provide for the aged within a certain range. After the emergence of the human family, it is the responsibility of the family to take care of the young and support the old. Providing for the aged is the gratitude of children to their parents, and it is the earliest natural emotion of human beings. Filial piety based on natural emotion is the expression of human moral emotion.

In the process of China's modernization, we should avoid repeating the mistakes of western countries. The traditional two-way feeding method in China is suitable for China's national conditions and the physiological and psychological characteristics of the elderly, so it is necessary to preserve and carry forward it. Based on the above analysis, I think that China's pension model should not only reflect the basic requirements of socialization, but also consider China's actual national conditions. In the reality of the simplification of family relations and the shift of the focus of intergenerational relations in China, we should especially emphasize some concepts that can reflect China's traditional values.

Our people pay attention to kinship and consanguinity, and the elderly are particularly willing to spend their old age with their families. At present, the family's pension function should continue to play a role. Specifically, family pension will play a fundamental role for a long time. Different from traditional family pension, its fundamental role is no longer based on its own strength, but on the premise of community support, help and active participation of the elderly.

Correctly establish the concept of family support for the aged 2 With the continuous development of medical technology, people pay more and more attention to health care. People's life expectancy has also been greatly extended. With China entering an aging society, "providing for the aged" has become a common concern of the society and the public. According to statistics, in 2007, China's elderly population over 60 years old reached 65.438+0.43 billion, exceeding 654.38+0.654 38+0% of the total population. It is predicted that by 2020, the elderly population in China will reach 248 million, and the aging level will reach 17%. In 2050, it will reach 437 million, and the proportion of the elderly population will reach 365,438+0.2% of the total population, that is, there will be/kloc-0 elderly people in every three to four people.

The reality is so grim, where should we go? As middle-aged and elderly people, they need to break through traditional ideas and re-examine the issue of providing for the aged, which is related to their livelihood.

Changing ideas ―― Breaking through the limitation of "raising children to prevent old age". According to our traditional culture and concept, it is unfilial for children not to die for the elderly. More than two thousand years ago, China had moral ideals and realistic requirements such as "a sense of security for the elderly", "a sense of security for the elderly" and "a sense of security for the elderly". This concept has lasted for thousands of years, but in the face of the reality of today's times, it is inevitable to shake up. More and more elderly people realize that the era of "raising children to prevent old age" is about to pass. A son may not be the ultimate destination.

There must be new ideas in the new era, and the idea of keeping pace with the times will make people better understand. Old people should also break the inherent mode of thinking. Whoever is good to himself and who makes himself comfortable should actually have an account in his heart. Choose more after the economic ability is improved. At present, the retirement wages of the elderly in the city are not low, medical expenses can also be reimbursed, and life is guaranteed. There are also some elderly people who have made great achievements in their professional fields. After retirement, he is still rehired or employed, and he has a good income in addition to his retirement salary. These old people actually have more choices. Understand children's difficulties and create a harmonious family atmosphere. Some old people live with their children and often have friction, which makes the family very unhappy and angry with each other; Some elderly people, no matter how busy their children are, have to find their children to deal with big and small issues, regardless of their pressure; When some old people hear their children say that they want to live in a nursing home, they blame their children for being unfilial and don't want to die of old age ... In fact, many children want their parents to live a long and healthy life and enjoy their old age. Only when they are unable to do so will they come up with various more realistic plans. Old people should learn to think from the child's point of view, understand the child's difficulties, create a good atmosphere for themselves and their families, and try to decompress their children. Look on the bright side of everything, be tolerant and generous with each other when getting along with children, and be humble with each other when encountering friction. This is the best way to spend your old age safely. Take precautions to avoid being at a loss in old age.

First, invest in reserves and plan ahead.

No matter which old-age care mode you choose, you must prepare for the old-age care in advance. Economic reserve is the basic condition, so we should prepare for the family, that is, create a harmonious environment for our future. There are many ways to provide for the aged, and the capital reserve is the first. If you choose to go to a nursing home or an apartment for the elderly, you have to pay thousands of dollars a month. If you get sick again, you will need more expenses, so the economic foundation is very important. Many elderly people have a good eye and have developed a good habit of saving money and managing money. "Those who have no long-term worries must have near worries." These people who look to the future will have more adequate protection in their later years.

Second, make good friends and don't be a "lonely old man" mentally.

Old people are most afraid of loneliness, children are not at home, and they can only face their wives every day; Some people die, only one person every day, no one to talk to.

People need to communicate-exchange feelings, exchange ideas, and often chat at home. In any case, old people can't let themselves fall into a lonely life. Find a few intimate friends and travel together: find a few partners with similar interests and play cards and chess together; Find a few friends you know and trust, live together, provide for the aged ... all kinds of forms can be chosen, so that you can have friends, socialize and have normal emotional communication. Many elderly people suffer from depression, because they are short of friends, communication and catharsis, and they suppress themselves. You can get to know the elderly by participating in the local community or participating in various colorful activities in the Lucky House.

Third, cultivate hobbies and enrich spiritual life.

Many elderly people have their own hobbies, such as painting and calligraphy, poetry and songs, playing the piano and singing, dancing and playing ball, bridge and Go, online shopping, traveling and reading, and so on. Other elderly people actively participate in public welfare activities, which are very good living habits. Only when you are old and happy can you achieve a sense of security.

For example, in recent years, Lucky House has launched the "Sunset Red" Dance Competition, the University for the Elderly, the Festival of Filial Piety, the love plot and various residential activities for the elderly. The colorful activities have helped the elderly friends cultivate their hobbies, enriched their spiritual life and cultivated their sentiments.

Fourth, choose the mode of providing for the aged that suits you

Family pension, institutional pension and community home pension are three basic pension models in China. Family pension is a traditional pension model, institutional pension is a socialized pension model, and community home pension is a pension model that takes care of both family and society.

Lucky House not only has the above three modes of providing for the aged, but also provides a variety of new modes of providing for the aged, such as personalized old-age care, "staying at home" and home-based old-age care, for elderly friends with different needs to choose from!

Breaking through the traditional concept and establishing the concept of providing for the aged in the new era will help each of our elderly friends live a better and happier life!