Encounter a very thorny problem of interweaving IQ and EQ.

You said you thought you liked her. If you really like him, you shouldn't break up. You should stay with her, stay with her. All you should think about now is how to make her like you and how to make her happy. But what makes her unhappy? Is it because that man ignored her? So you shouldn't let him like you first. But let her forget that man and let her get out of that shadow. If you succeed, can she still dislike you? Maybe you will say that you have been enlightening her. But I think you're just comforting her and making her happy. You should try not to talk about that man. But will it make her forget him? You can say to her, "That's very kind of you to that man, but what about him?" And so on.

If you really like her, please don't give up, because she doesn't like you at all, but she can't forget that man.

If it really doesn't work, even if you think she is a little annoyed, then don't pester her, which will only make her hate you more, and letting go is also a kind of love for her. You should still be friends with her, because she helped you and you like her. Why do you have to break up in discord?

I say this not only because of a reward, but because I once liked someone as much as you. I used to ask questions here like you. I think you, like me at that time, didn't really want to find an answer, but wanted to find an excuse, an excuse for confession. My question at that time chose an answer that made me concentrate on my study as the best. But I confessed, because I really love her. Finally, we came together and are very happy now. She didn't give me the answer until a month after I confessed. During this period, I was also depressed and thought about giving up, but I persisted. Finally, I got something.

I tell you, don't neglect friendship because of love. Cherish those sincere friends around you and talk to them if you have any troubles. You can even show your weakest side to your friends. You can hold them and cry. There is no reason. Friendship is like this.

You'd better not raise the reward. How many of all the answers upstairs are for reward? Don't say "there is no best, only better". Because this kind of problem is neither good nor bad, because people have different opinions. There are actually only two answers you can see. Confess or not. Just different, some concrete and some simple. I think the answer you are looking for is the one closest to your heart, because I was just like you. ...