How to be a person who has high demands on yourself?

Set goals and surpass yourself. Goals are the node that places high demands on oneself, and also adjusts one's speed of adapting to progress in a short period of time and maintains one's sufficient motivation. To have high demands, you must have high standards, have high demands on yourself, and compare yourself with the ideal you imagine, or compare with your admirers.

First, the motivation to set high demands on yourself. If we want to improve ourselves and constantly make demands on ourselves, we must pursue something. When we have more desires, we will continue to work towards a better version of ourselves and achieve that goal. This is the source of raising the bar for yourself.

Second, the progressive change of thinking. If a person has a broad mind, his vision will become broader, and the world he wants to go to will be more advanced. If you are addicted to mobile phones and online games every day, you will naturally not have any collisions of ideas and your thinking will stagnate. It is better to let yourself communicate more with better people and see a more interesting world through them.

Third, the strengthening of mobility. When we think about making ourselves better and raising our requirements, we should take action immediately and do something meaningful. No matter whether we are not clear about what the requirements are for ourselves, we should start from the small things we have known for a long time. Read one more book today, go for an extra run tomorrow, etc. Unconsciously, we will have expectations for a better version of ourselves.

Being strict with ourselves means that we have our own yearnings in our hearts, such as a better life, a better partner, a better job, etc. The so-called "people go to higher places" "Water flows downward." Doesn't it mean that people are constantly making progress? Many times, it is easier said than done. Continuously getting what you want from actions and opening up your own unknown insights will generate more curiosity and make you desire to integrate more.