"In my family, the daughter-in-law can't eat at the table." "What rules? I won't marry. " what do you think?

With the development of the times, people's minds are more and more open, but there are still some backward customs in remote areas, and most of them are aimed at women. In real life, I believe everyone can often see such a scene: on holidays, the daughter-in-law is the busiest person in the family, busy washing vegetables and cooking, busy serving tea and taking care of everyone. Everyone is used to this. When questioned, they will say, "I bought her with a bride price, and she should serve our family." Is it funny?

Zhao Xin speed skating and Liu Chen are college classmates. They have been together for four years, and their feelings have always been very good. Zhao Xin speed skating heard Liu Chen mention a lot about their family, and his father left early. It was their mother who brought them up and managed them very strictly. As the only boy in the family, he was expected from an early age. His two sisters got married a few years ago, and his mother was alone in the family.

Liu Chen thought it was almost time, so he planned to take Zhao Xin's speed skater back to see his parents. In order to have a good relationship with her future mother-in-law and sister-in-law, Zhao Xin's speed skaters prepared many gifts and asked Liu Chen about their respective preferences and matters needing attention. As soon as I got home, my prospective mother-in-law and sister-in-law greeted me warmly.

At noon, the prospective mother-in-law asked, "Who will cook?" In order to leave a good impression on her mother-in-law, Zhao Xin's speed skater volunteered, and her elder sister hurriedly refused, but Zhao Xin's speed skater insisted and let her go. When the last dish was served, Zhao Xin speed skating found that all the dishes on the table were basically looted. She was startled, and her sister quickly explained, "Didn't you save yourself a meal? Our daughter-in-law can't go to the table and eat in the kitchen. "

Seeing Zhao Xin's speed skater dumbfounded, Liu Chen saved the scene: "Mom, sister, it's my first time to meet someone, and I don't know the rules. Give her a face. " He said, pull me to my seat. At this time, my mother-in-law said, "I didn't know the rules when I first came, and I don't know what to do in the future." Zhao Xin's speed skater reacted: "What is a foul? I'm not getting married. " After that, he walked to the door. After this incident, Zhao Xin thoroughly saw the Liu Chen family and said that he would break up.

Daughter-in-law can't eat at the table. In fact, many places have such regulations. This kind of differential treatment is to put the daughter-in-law in the ranks of outsiders, not to let her integrate into this family, and treat her as a free nanny. Many women suffer from it. At this time, the man's attitude is particularly important. If a man can stand up for his wife and make it clear in front of everyone, this family will be happy. As a woman, you should also keep your eyes open to see if this person is worth marrying.