How do patriarchal families treat their daughters-in-law?

When you get married, you need a bride price. When bargaining, I feel like a Chinese cabbage in the market. At that time, I was too young to resist because of moral kidnapping. And before that, I told my parents that our children are all the same, and there is absolutely no preference for boys. From then on, my heart began to change painfully. I've been married for ten years and I've always had a problem. Now I live and work to support my family, raise children and give money to my parents. Although the house I bought last year is also being repaid with my housing provident fund. If I divorce, I want nothing, but I will leave it to my children under the pressure of life. I don't want to meet my parents or in-laws.

There is little possibility of divorce. My husband loves me very much and my children are lovely! With the rapid development of society, the phenomenon of "son preference" is becoming less and less in our life. The slogan that boys and girls are the same gradually spread all over China. Although most young people now accept the concept of emerging education, there are not so many requirements and restrictions on having boys and girls in life.

But inevitably, in our life, there are still many old people who keep their stubborn thoughts. In their minds, only boys are the hope of the whole family and the candidates for carrying on the family line. Therefore, in the previous family, people all had the great ambition of not having boys.

And some old people will carry this idea to the next generation. So for the daughter-in-law, they only have one request, that is, to give birth to a grandson for themselves. If the daughter-in-law is not satisfied with having a grandson, they will make things difficult for her in life.