A video that can't change the environment.

When we can't change the present situation or the objective environment, what we can do is to adjust our lifestyle, learn to adapt, learn to follow the track, open a smooth survival channel and broaden our space.

I once read such a sentence from Tolstoy's book: "There are only two kinds of people in the world: the spectator and the actor. Most people want to change the world, but no one wants to change themselves.

It can be said that all achievements begin with adapting to changes and changing ourselves. No one should expect others to do as you do. Some people, some things, and some environments you can't change. Nothing you can do can stop it. You can't change others or the world. The only thing you can do is to change yourself.

In fact, in contemporary society, the environment we live in is far more complicated than we thought. In life, maybe you and your lover always quarrel from time to time, and your child's study has not improved; At work, the suppression of top leaders, vicious competition among colleagues ... what should you do at this time? Swear viciously that I will change my lover, my children, my leader and my colleagues? Obviously, this is not a wise move. Changing others is just an unrealistic dream. The most effective and best way to solve the problem is to change yourself.

Do you think that if you change your attitude towards your lover and become gentle and considerate, will love always find fault with you? If you change the way you treat your child and pay more attention to his learning problems, will your child still be so motivated? If you change the way you get along with your leaders, you may be the next person to get a promotion and a raise; If you change your competitive mentality, maybe your opponent will become friends. ..................................................................................................................................................................

Plato, the great philosopher, told his disciples that he could move mountains, so they all asked for advice. Plato said with a smile, very simple. If the mountain doesn't come, I'll go there. The disciples couldn't help being speechless.

In fact, there is no art of moving mountains in the world. The only secret to moving mountains is to come over, and I'll go there.

Similarly, people can't change the environment, then change themselves.