Mother-in-law said: it is only natural for a son to raise a daughter. What do you care as an outsider? Is the daughter-in-law an outsider?

My husband and I have been married for six years and my daughter is five years old. Life is getting harder and harder now. I am on the verge of collapse because my sister is divorced. Husband and sister have had a good relationship since childhood, which was originally a good thing, but today, my sister always feels that this brother owes her, and even her in-laws think that her husband should raise her sister.

My husband is working very well now, with a monthly salary of over 1 10,000, which is quite good in our small city. In-laws' family conditions are very general. When we got married, we didn't buy a house. Husband said that it is a matter of time before young people have to struggle on their own and buy a house. My family has better conditions. My parents offered to pay us a down payment, but I refused. Therefore, my in-laws speak highly of me. They call me a fool in private. I once naively thought that it didn't matter what my in-laws thought of me, as long as my husband was kind to me.

After marriage, in order to live in a big house early, my husband and I scrimped and saved. Finally, when my daughter was over two years old, she paid the down payment and moved into a new house. My husband is a filial person, and specially bought a big three-bedroom apartment so that my in-laws can live together when they are old. In this way, we are under great pressure to repay the loan every month. My husband's name and mine are written on the house. My parents-in-law and elder sister were unhappy when they found out, saying that my husband was stupid.

I am speechless about this elder sister who likes to intervene in everything. She got married early and married a rich husband. Every time her in-laws mentioned this daughter, she was full of pride. Sister-in-law's eyes are up to her forehead, and she looks down on people everywhere, especially me. I want to know, I only met her two or three times before we got married. Where did she get such a big hatred for me? Fortunately, we moved to a new house and didn't see her very often, so we lived in peace.

My in-laws were very unhappy when I gave birth to my daughter. My mother-in-law didn't say anything, but the actual action showed that she didn't care about her daughter at all, saying that her back hurts and her legs hurt, but she just didn't help. That's the attitude of my mother-in-law, and I don't trust her daughter. It was not until our daughter needed someone to pick her up after she went to kindergarten that her mother-in-law took the initiative to help us take care of the children. Many of her older sisters are in town to see their grandchildren, and she feels ashamed at home.

After the in-laws came, there were occasional small frictions because of their different living habits. But I don't care about many things, because my in-laws come to pick up my daughter every day. In this way, after a year, my sister divorced. My sister and her in-laws never get along well. They often quarrel. It is said that this quarrel was very fierce. I took my mother-in-law to the hospital and my husband divorced her directly.

At the beginning, the house was bought before marriage, and there was no share of aunt. After the couple got married, they spent a lot of money and had no property at all. Therefore, the divorce of the elder sister-in-law is basically equivalent to cleaning up the house and taking the younger daughter back to her family. My in-laws are all in my house, and my sister moved into my house with her children. I was unhappy, so my husband advised me that his sister was very poor. As a brother, I had to help her. I think so, too. I must be in a bad mood just after my divorce. Let them move in for a while.

This may be the worst decision I have ever made. My sister became the hostess of this family as soon as she moved in, and her lazy nature is obvious. I just do nothing all day. What I can't stand most is that she took a fancy to my clothes, put on her jewelry without saying hello, and while wearing it, she disliked that my things were not high-grade and fashionable. Occasionally complain to my husband, who always comforts me. He said it was a trivial matter and there was no need to be so clear about it, but I was just unhappy in my heart.

In this way, the eldest sister lived in our house with her children for half a year and didn't go out to work. At home, she wants to eat this and that, but she always asks her husband for money. We finally bought a house and paid off the mortgage. We want to save some money to buy a car, but it's a good thing. Besides paying off the mortgage, our salary last month was basically moonlight, so we couldn't save any money. I have some exquisite jewelry, which was given to me by my best friend and bought by my husband when I got married. I took the jewelry box and some special clothes back to my mother's house.

Elder sister-in-law knows about it. She had a big fight with me in front of her husband, saying that I was petty and guarded against her everywhere. After the quarrel, she asked her husband for 1000 yuan, saying that she wanted to buy a skirt. I can't stand it. I grabbed my husband's wallet. Suddenly, like a bitch, my sister sat on the ground crying and asked her husband to take care of me. When my in-laws came back from outside, my mother-in-law saw her daughter crying. I have a wallet in my hand and scold me. "It is natural for a son to raise a daughter. What are you doing alone? "

Sister-in-law was even more arrogant when she saw her in-laws' return, and cried out for me to fuck off. I'm really short of breath. For such a long time, they pushed their noses into their faces. I suddenly lost my temper and shouted at them, "This is my home. Why can't I take care of it?" Even if I get divorced, this house is half mine. I'm afraid I'm not the one who should go! "Say that finish, I knocked the cups and bowls on the tea table to the ground.

This is the first time I have lost my temper. Everyone stopped talking, even my husband froze. The next morning, my aunt packed up and left angrily, and our family's life finally returned to calm. From then on, I understood a truth. I still can't be too honest. In my own home, I get angry when I get angry. I will lift the table as soon as I lift it. I will be very patient. I can't get the gratitude of my husband's family at all, but I think you are easy to bully. If I had understood this truth earlier, I would not have been bullied for so long.