Tell me who broke the comfort zone.

In the year of graduation, I looked back and couldn't help sighing-I thought I had distanced myself from my peers, but I never lost the childishness of my students; I thought I was familiar with this society. Who knows that the road I have traveled and the people I met are just the tip of the iceberg.

During that time, I was really confused.

After 20 years old, I no longer use youth as an excuse, so I am eager to do something amazing.

After a long time, people are easily lost and unable to find an exit.

At that time, I prayed that a pie would hit me and wake me up.

Later, this pie came, but it didn't fall from the sky. It was shared by a colleague.

Friends who are familiar with me know that my change is due to a book.

It's hard for me to describe the feeling of reading this book for the first time now. I can only say that it really only takes one night to grow up.

After that night, I thought a lot, kept taking notes, writing summaries, and then writing summaries, so there were many summary articles about this book.

Reading Sister Meng's Handbook of Life Efficiency: I got the best answer in three years in this book-

A senior bookkeeper threw away all his treasures one day just because. ...

After reading a book, there are many feelings, and it is not a great thing to sum up the essence inside.

The key is action.

The so-called action is to break the comfort zone, change some bad habits and regain some necessary habits.

I am very grateful to meet this book, which gave me a strong motivation and made me quietly have a heart of change and put it into action.

From the day I went to college, I began to give up studying and the habit of reading.

Even the feeling and impulse of reading are lost, which is actually terrible.

Qian Qi, a famous workplace writer, said that you can avoid studying on campus, but you can never escape the fact that you must study all your life, and if you want to make progress, you must actively study.

Perhaps because of the magnetic field, I found the feeling of reading in this book and re-established the habit of reading.

I read books every night and read at least four books every month.

The standard of seriousness is that I can write a good summary.

Don't let the inherent thinking affect you. Learning is very important, especially in this era of knowledge payment. Knowledge investment is really important. As for whether it can be used, it has nothing to do with whether it can be used or not.

I was really, really confused when I graduated.

At that time, interviews with famous enterprises were always rejected, and the more interviews, the less self-esteem. It was really difficult to find the job you wanted. Finally, after all kinds of annoying interviews and so-called careful consideration, I chose a small company as an editor.

It was thoughtful at first, but now it seems just an escape.

After 20 18, I began to think from Meng Jie's book, and suddenly understood one thing: the confusion at any stage of life can't be avoided, otherwise it will accumulate one day and trigger an avalanche.

In 20 18, I began to plan what I will do in the next five years and what efforts I need to make to achieve this goal.

After making a good plan, I found that I couldn't escape a problem-finding a job I like.

Many people like to say that there are so many jobs you like in the world. How can there be so many two identical ones in the world?

Yes, there are many difficulties in this world.

But, ah, I always feel that a complete life exists, just need you to pay a lot of things.

The first step is whether you are willing to make a choice.

Whether it is a job or a partner, it is a matter of choice.

If you want to make the most suitable choice, you must experience, communicate and summarize.

Teacher Chen Zi, a partner of Meng Jie, shared her experience of finding the other half-setting herself the goal of getting married and not getting divorced, starting blind dates and getting to know different people of the opposite sex, just to find the right person.

I admire her for being able to analyze her feelings rationally and then practice them seriously and rationally.

If you want to have the right to choose, you must create more choices. Remember, you must create your own choices in life.

This month, I went to interview, wrote industry reports, wrote reading summaries, communicated with people in different circles, and communicated with HR interviews of major companies.

It takes courage.

Courage comes from the goal.

I want to know myself more clearly, so I know many insiders; I want to find a job I like, so I have tried many companies seriously to let myself know more about the industrial structure of this city.

One year after graduation, I finally understood what Li wanted to say: the interview is not a trial, but an exchange.

Facing the interviewer, I was no longer nervous and learned to speak with my work. Finally, I have a chance to get an offer from a famous company.

I will set goals and break them down first.

"I really want to learn the piano ..."

"I really want to learn to sing ..."

"I want to practice vest line, I want to go to Beijing ..."

I've said so many such things before that I'm numb.

The reason why you always talk but don't do it may be because of money or time.

But I think the most important thing is no planning.

I learned a lot from Meng Jie's books, the most important of which is the investment thinking in growth planning.

Dreams should not be delayed.

I wrote about 15 dreams, and then picked out the most important one.

The two goals of 20 18 are to build personal IP in business and to make yourself capable of standing on the stage.

The first goal, I'll start writing from getting up early.

I once shared that I am a person who is afraid of getting up early. In middle school, I was the last person to get up in the dormitory, which was my pleasure.

When a person regards getting up early as a terrible thing, it can be said to be sad.

It was not until this year that I discovered that getting up late and going to bed late is a kind of consumption.

This is a change of thinking.

Now, even though I can't get up at six o'clock every day, I know I'm making progress, and I even changed my mind about getting up early.

20 18 began to get up early to write, and I don't know how many documents and waste manuscripts were stored in the computer.

Those quiet coffee mornings witnessed my growth.

The second goal-to stand on the stage and release my musical cells-is what I have always dreamed of.

I spread it out and set a goal. In the second and third quarters, I concentrated on learning the piano and went to the gym to prepare for the flexibility of practicing dance in the future. Learn to dance in the fourth quarter.

I work step by step around the goal.

I started to learn the piano this month-I think I will always remember those people who have a cold and headache practicing in the piano room for 7 hours.

I started working out this month-I don't think I'll forget my strained muscles and sweat.

Change is a difficult thing, but if change can make my life perfectly balanced, I am willing to pay many, many prices.

Fortunately, I am 23 years old and met the most beautiful girl at the most beautiful age.

In the book, I gained courage, learned to change, and gradually matured.

Appreciate everything, thank you.